The main thing in this situation is not to delay, the further you wake up, the more painful it will be for him to survive your gap. If he really loves you, it is possible that he will understand you, let go and forgive. Love - a thing pitiful and therefore a loved one, as a rule, always want only happiness. Therefore, if he really loves you, he will forgive. The main thing is to explain it correctly. Without screaming and scandal, try to talk to him, calm him down. Find the reason to prove that you do not deserve it, that there are many other girls who are much better than you. Even if there is a possibility, knowing his tastes, introduce him, with some, of his girlfriends. Or look for him the girl herself (for example, through social networks of the Internet or chat rooms), talk with her and if she likes it, try to arrange a meeting with them. Certainly not a fact, but suddenly something will come out. As you know, in the war all means are good. The main thing with him is honest and sincere, do not come up with a variety of pseudo reasons and reasons. Tell him everything as it is. Better a bitter truth than a sweet lie. Whatever you do, do not come up with and do not, it will still hurt. But he will at least know that you are not deceiving him and sincere with him. The main thing is do not do it via SMS, by phone or internet. You must look into each other's eyes and solve this problem, experience it together. Here we need a "live conversation" tete-a-tete. Never during a conversation, do not try to humiliate him. Show that you respect his feelings, which he feels in relation to you, but, as they say, you can not order your heart. Extinguish his feelings for you only you help yourself. Invite him to remain friends do not deprive him of communication with himself, he will not forget you all at once. Explain to him the priorities of the same, friendship. Promise that you will not stop communicating, that he will always be able to see you as soon as he wants. This above described method is best known when answering the question of how to part with a guy if he loves me?
If you still do not dare to talk to him straightforward and are looking for other ways to solve the problem, try to break your relationship by cunning, but know, how would you not do it, it will definitely hurt. Here are some ways for you. Try to quarrel with him for any reason (think up the reason based on the situation). Zatey he scandal with claims and grievances, then slam the door and leave. The main thing is to choose a good reason for your quarrel, so that if you try to make up your mind, you had a strong argument. And yet, if you started this quarrel - then do not give up your defense to the end, to his requests to return everything to their places, answer with cold. Just remember the friendship to you in this scheme of parting and does not shine, but the threat that, with time, he will hate you, comes down to the maximum.
Another way to part with a guy is to hint to him that your feelings have cooled down. Restrict your visits, do not answer his calls, on his offer to see him, say that he's always busy. Comprehensively try to show your cold-bloodedness towards him. There are two original versions: either he will understand everything himself and try to stop loving you (which is very unlikely), or else the above conversation appears to you.
Find yourself a new guy or ask a friend he does not know to play the role of your boyfriend. Tell him that you fell in love with someone else and want to be with him. Show yourself in the eyes of common acquaintances with your newly made guy. The way is good, but the most deceitful. And your worshiper will be doubly sick.
So act, the right to choose how to do it depends only on you. But remember, the best way, it's still true. Your conversation on directness can change a lot. Try to reach out to his mind. Believe me, he is not a maniac, you will not be against your will. If you want to leave, - turn around and go, stop - go. Forcibly dear you will not. And what to do, this is a harsh reality, we did not invent it. Do not be afraid of the truth, do not be afraid of speaking. If you decide to leave firmly and irrevocably, then leave without looking back. And yet, try to be more simple: people converge, diverge, look for each other. Try to explain, understand - well; no - what can you do is not your fault. Just tell me how to eat and go without turning around. In the future, ignore his pleas that you would return, no matter how difficult it would be for you.
The main thing is not to give him any hopes that "maybe ..., someday" you'll wake up again. Remember his feelings, and feelings, as a rule, can not be played. You in fact understand, that there is no other way out. You will pull, thinking about how best to do it - it will be harder many times. Do not communicate with him after your final decision, no matter how he tried to tell you about how he is hard and empty for you without you. Do not listen to all this. After all, because of his love for you, he is blind like a kitten, does not understand at all how difficult it is for you to be with an unloved person. And he can not let go (or rather does not want to), because this is the nature of men: they do not like to lose, to give up their own. And you just go away and in any case do not come back. It's a pity? I see. But remember that you can not build a relationship at all for pity. Although how would you beat this situation - know it anyway, a blow to the heart can not be avoided. In a word - do not torture the guy. Decided to part - do it honestly, not coming up with cheap scenes. He loves, perhaps he will understand. Remember, time heals everything. And perhaps, you, in this life, will become very close people - only under the constellation of good friends.