The husband is a housewife.
Some men are quite happy with the situation that their wife earns more money. They do not want to change anything, they are comfortable and comfortable. If a woman is satisfied with the position of her husband-housewife, then the family will be in harmony and mutual understanding. Typically, this scenario develops in a couple where the woman is powerful and active, and the husband is passive. After charging himself with domestic duties, the wife will point out to her husband for his failure and inability to fulfill his duties. There must be a clear division of labor: the wife earns money, the husband provides comfort and comfort in the house.
To engage in housekeeping for many men is a normal and acceptable occupation. The way your beloved spends a lot of time at work, but he always meets her in the evening, will offer dinner. The main thing for both is to clearly understand that this division of duties suits both. Do not say that you are the source of family income, but your husband does not do anything. Remember that a strong rear contributes to the successful construction of a career.
Rivalry in the family.
A man comes into conflict with his wife, trying to prove who the head of the family is and who provides the family. As a rule, in such families people do not see much, and when they are together, they begin to find out who the head of the family is. How long will "such a struggle" is unknown. Suffer from this children and home comfort, because none of the spouses do not want to do household chores. All the forces go to the extraction of money.
It is always possible to find a way out of this situation. Divorce or take off the role of the breadwinner. Family is not a battlefield and a playground, where everyone proves that he is the best. This is not a place to win and receive a prize and a gold medal for "perseverance." Remember how it all began. What feelings and emotions did you have at the beginning of the relationship. Remember that you are a weak woman and you are waiting for children at home who do not have enough attention and care. Show your husband that you are proud of his achievements, support all his undertakings, and he will answer you with love and affection.
A man does not accept such a model of the family.
Your husband was brought up in a family where his father received the basic income? Then, most likely, if your family has a situation that the wife earns more money. Wait for the negative reaction of the man. He will start to suppress the woman, trying to show who is the master of the house. The ability of the wife to earn money will offend men, cause jealousy. The desire to keep everything under control will certainly cause quarrels and scandals.
The best way out in this situation will be to give up a career in favor of a family hearth. Or you will need to become a delicate diplomat. When returning from work, discard the image of a "big boss". In every possible way show your husband that he is the main one in your family. Ask his advice about buying one or another thing about educating your children. Explain to your husband that your work is important to you, but you would not be able to reach heights without his participation, support and clever advice.
Perfect option.
The man shares the successes of his wife, supports her and understands, rejoices for the promotion. This model of behavior is available only to self-confident men. As a rule, in such families, household duties are divided equally. Do not rest on your own independence. It is important to let your husband know that you are also proud of his successes and respect his work.
If you earn more than your husband, but none of the above options are appropriate to your situation. Use general tips to bring your family relations into harmony.
Consult your husband about your affairs, about studying children, about buying a big thing, about common family events. Let him know that you are important to his support, his opinion and participation.
Divide the role of the wife and the "big boss". Do not command at home. Let your husband be the main thing.
Celebrate the success of her husband. Say you are proud of him.
Stop even a little bit on your own. Let your husband take care of you, be a "stone wall" for you.
There are no colleagues or bosses in the family, there is a man and a woman between whom there must be love and mutual understanding and respect