Restrain emotions
Firstly, in order to establish contact with the girl of your friend, you need to immediately show that you are a friend and only a friend, and that no more than that. At the first acquaintance, be prepared for what you will evaluate. Do not take it hostile. Each girl, learning that a guy has a girlfriend, willy-nilly thinks about whether he is not a secret lover of his lover. Therefore, at a meeting it is not necessary to throw to the friend on a neck and to kiss it. Such behavior may seem suspicious at first sight. Especially if the girl does not have boyfriends. At the same time, you do not need to keep from your friend at the "pioneer distance", because this can also cause wrong thoughts. Just restrain your emotions a little, limit yourself to short embraces, you can peck at the cheek, but no more. Let the girl get used to you and then you can already behave as always.
Do not Try to Like
Many girls make a very big mistake - they try to make love to their friend's passions. So do not need to do in any case. The thing is that if a person behaves unnaturally, it is always evident and instead of making a good impression on yourself, you can get a completely opposite result. So try to be yourself. Although in some cases, you still need to show some restraint. For example, if a girl is modest, non-drinker and non-smoker, and you like to smoke and drink pivkas by another, do not shy away from strong words, then at the first meeting you still have to introduce yourself more quickly. And here it's not that it's your friend's girlfriend, but rather an elemental respect for the values and views of the other person.
Unhide friends
"If he is my friend, then it must become my friend" - it is under this motto that many girls are building the wrong relationship of their friend. They immediately begin to behave too confidently, strenuously impose help, come up with reasons to see and communicate. And then they are very surprised why this girl starts to shy away from her boyfriend's girlfriend.
We choose our friends ourselves. Therefore, when someone is tied to us, then each person begins to resist it. So this behavior cause only negative. The girl has her friends whom she cherishes. And beginning to meet with your friend, the lady did not expect that the widow will receive a new girlfriend. Therefore, one should not force oneself to be pushed around by her friends. Let everything go as it should go. If you have common interests and views on life, as a result, the friendship between you will appear at the most unexpected moment, you will not even notice it.
By the way, you need to make one reservation about friendships friendship. It is a medal with two sides. That is, such friendship is good, that the girl will not be jealous of you, you can spend more time with a friend, since she does not mind your company and so on. But, on the other hand, when there is a regular conflict between them, everyone can come to you for help. And then you will have to be between two fires. Many say that they will just keep neutrality, but in practice it is proved that it is not easy to do it, because people start to crush it elementary. A friend will say that you are primarily his girlfriend and in any situation must be on his side, even if he is not right. And his girl, in turn, will say that all is led by female solidarity, so you must help her. As a result, you will throw from negoq her, and then you can also be guilty. So it's worth thinking about before you start making friends with your friend's girlfriend. To be just in a good relationship - it does not oblige you to anything, but calling her a friend, you take on obligations that you can not easily handle.
Do not say too much
When you communicate with a girlfriend of your friend, watch what you say. Of course, close friends have a bunch of interesting mocking stories that connect them. But this does not mean that it is necessary to know about others. Especially the girlfriend of your friend. After all, no one knows how she will react to this or that story. What seems ridiculous to you can be stupid to her, and the innocent - too double-valued. So, take the liberty of not telling the stories that are related to her boyfriend. And if you want to tell something, it's better to ask your friend beforehand whether it's possible for his girl to hear it. So you will save yourself from accusations that a friend has been branded and now the girl does not treat him as it should.
Do not forget the owner
Many girls treat their friends as property. Especially if these friends for a long time are bachelors. Vitoga, girls get used to the fact that a friend always spends time with them, pay attention and so on. And when a friend appears a girl, everything changes. And frustration begins jealousy, which is hard to hide. In this case, learn to control yourself. You love your friend and wish him happiness. So, you should be glad that he has a loved one, and understand that it is quite natural that he wants to spend time with a girlfriend alone. Therefore, if the situation is really not abnormal, when the girl does not let go of her lover one step at a time, then you have to put up with the current course of events and not look at it as the "enemy of the people", who took from you the most valuable. Such behavior can disrupt your relationship with a friend, and the girl will cause unhealthy suspicions and she will start to think about how friendly your relationship between you and her friend is and whether there is something about which she does not know.
Hsu does not like you
If the girlfriend of your friend dislikes you for any reasons, you should not try to please her and fix everything. In general, do not pay attention to her behavior and in no case, do not say anything to your friend. If you start explaining to the guy that his girlfriend is not right, then most likely, just spoil your relationship. Therefore, try to stay away. Sooner or later everything will be formed, and you can experience it because of this. In the meantime, do not let her to hunt you and break your friendship. If the guy will see that his girlfriend is not right, then he will always stand by your side, so as not to lose a faithful and loyal friend.