It is not possible for men to part. Well, ordinary (you can say - typical) man can not invite a girl to a romantic dinner and after a dessert honestly confess that everything went away. So he uses a beaten reception - he stops ringing. Or it tries to create an environment in which the relationship itself goes to naught.
Another situation. The girl leaves. Perhaps, with some degree of delicacy, even trying to make it softer, painless ... However, there is a firm point of view that to terminate the relationship is the privilege of the stronger sex. It is easy to understand all the negative that arises in the heart of a man after violating this stereotype. After all, parting is inevitably connected with the feeling of personal failure. These experiences so violate a well-established sense of comfort that men seek to radically resolve the situation. I want to tear, throw and hate. But the question is - who? Yourself? Is it worth it? To itself it is already bad. Hatred and self-torture only aggravate the situation. Her?
A nightmarish mishmash of love and hate can destroy any destiny. Opponent? Do you think that there must always be an opponent? This is by no means the most popular reason for the woman's departure. It would seem that there is simply no other way out for a man. Either despise yourself, or pout on it, either curse the situation, or hate the opponent, which, as it turns out, does not always really exist. If you think in a primitive way, then whatever reason a man might consider, in the end, he will blame the woman for everything. That's poured on her in response to an avalanche of dirt, obscenities, vulgarities and threats. Or the other extreme - an endless stream of lacrimal calls interspersed with assurances of love, requests to return and an oath of promise to hang themselves under the windows. Negative attitude toward a woman has a certain therapeutic effect on the abandoned man.
Love, because of which all his problems, is gradually etched. But is this the best way out? If a woman is the initiator of parting, is it worth taking offense at her for it? Perhaps she left you, because she had no other choice? Why do men not know how to leave beautifully, so that the girlfriend herself regretted the separation, and did not rejoice over the timely break? In the modern mind, the opinion has been established that a modern man must be unruffled and self-confident, and all his actions are focused on achieving the goal. It sounds like a paradox, but women are more attracted to men who know how to part. Which behave like adults, mature people. Who are able to frankly talk about their feelings and accept the arguments of the opponent.
Such a man most women perceive as a person who knows what he wants and where he is going, that is, as a real man. Of course, there are men, as well as women, who know how to part beautifully. Everything depends on education, on the nature of the person, on how strong the feelings were. You can part with gratitude simply for the fact that the relationship with a once-beloved person was in your life, without experiencing either hatred, resentment, or anger ... Parting with love. After all, parting is a certain result in the relationship of two, once loving people.