How beautiful these lines are, is not it true: "Ah, Romeo, dear Romeo"? It is not known why Shakespeare's hero expresses his feelings so vehemently, either because he is still young, or if the fervor of his feelings ignites him more and more every day.
Every woman in the world wants her loved one to tell her affectionate words more often. It is worth the man to say the phrase "beautiful, beloved, dear and dear", as a woman melts like a piece of ice in the spring, in his hands. But still women are more and more interested in why he does not say this "I love".
In response to the question: "Do you love me," he muttered something incoherently to himself and continued to pursue his own business. Let's try to understand this issue. Or maybe just men have their own language, call it "male"?
Say the answer: do you love or not?
Our loved ones are like guerrillas: notice, he will never talk about his problems until he reaches the boiling point. And the words of love? They are for men as traps - just say it, and already got-promised something, there was a disconnect - everything failed, and you do not want to look like a talker. Here they are silent.
Loves, but is silent?
In our modern world, a woman remains a woman, despite the fact that she has become not only a keeper of the home, but also a breadwinner. But sometimes a weak half of humanity forgets about its first destination and hence the problems begin. In order for you to be loved, and yes even talking about this, at least once every 3 weeks you must love yourself. Well, love him, take care of him, and only get an illegible mooing on the phone and no hot confessions, what is it?
The fact that a man puts into the notion I like simply affectionate words, uttered only with a sense of duty: "I promise to help you in everything, I will take care of you, I will tolerate your relatives." Let's not forget that for the heroes of our time, it is difficult to recognize any feelings at all. After all, they put their reflection in them: "I will never betray you, never change." They themselves understand that if they do not keep their word, they will hurt those who care about them. But the most interesting thing is that men themselves will not be as good from it as they seem, because they will lose their reputation, they will simply fall in the eyes of a woman. So what to do? Just be silent, then we will do without victims on both sides.
And who is happier? Pupa or a woman?
Quite often we come across American romantic comedies and see how the protagonist of his lover gives a very precious gift, thus showing his love. So stereotypes develop in the minds of women: if he likes, then he will give me expensive presents. But is it?
Imagine this situation, roughly speaking, we will observe: two women, one meets a man who has a decent income, and another slightly above average. The first is asking his beloved everything, anything, starting with a purse from Prada and ending with the diamond necklace of Tiffany, but he is so demanding, as if every gift says to her: "You owe me." Another one brings a bouquet of flowers for a date and arranges romantic dinners, but treats a woman with understanding, demanding nothing in return. And who is happier? Pupa or a woman?
Of course, I would like to wish every woman in this world to find a man who is intelligent, beautiful, caring, and prosperous. But life is such a fun thing. Let's draw a conclusion: it does not matter how much the gift will cost, the main thing is that he would give a sign of attention, and this is another word I love, only in the "male" language. Remember, if your beloved man hurries from work to you, cancel an important meeting only because your favorite dog is sick, and when he is on a business trip, he calls five times a day - you can wonder why. Maybe the words will not be so important?
Today you saw him again, and he did not leave you for a minute, he held his hand, touched you, and you felt protected and desired, because he was near. Thus, he once again tells you that he needs you. His touch, caress, care all this should remind you of what he likes. It's not so nice to touch a person who is indifferent to you, and even to hold your whole hand for the whole evening, like it's made of gold.
It does not matter how much the gift will cost, the main thing is that he gives a sign of attention, and this is another word I love, only in the "male language".
But all this may seem like a trifle compared to what part of his life you occupy. If he introduces you to his close people, friends, gives the keys to the apartment means he loves. He tells you about work, you visit exhibitions together, do not step away from you - the more areas of life that a loved one admits to you, the more he loves you. A simple theorem, is not it? If only she did not become too intrusive.