Emotional condition, which by signs resembles depression, in men from 35 to 45 years old is a crisis of middle age. This condition is associated with a reassessment of one's experience and life. The crisis of middle age in men is a transition to another stage of development. Sometimes the crisis in men is not very difficult, and sometimes very painful. The man during this period is asked questions: what has he achieved, what has he done? And if his answers are unsatisfactory, then the crisis is rather difficult.
Signs of crisis in men in middle age
In middle-aged men, at the onset of the crisis, radical changes occur in the style of communication, in behavior, in manners, in views on life, etc. During a crisis, a man changes so much that close ones do not recognize him. For example, pulling short shorts, suddenly goes on fishing. He remembers his youth and relives it anew, reaching absurdity, or does not mind priudarit for young girls, etc.
But there is another side of the crisis of middle age, which happens more often than the previous one. There is a depressive state, unreasonable anxieties and strange fears. At men of middle-aged age there is a bad state of health, apathy. He starts running around the doctors, exploring his sores. Sharply changes the attitude towards women. It often happens that he gets a young mistress to prove to himself that he is still "young." Begins in a man's insomnia, explosions of aggression, and sometimes does not want to communicate. A clear sign of the onset of the mid-life crisis is mood swings, and permanent ones.
How to help the crisis survive a man
It's no secret that the disease is better to prevent than to cure later. This applies to the crisis of middle age. It is necessary to monitor the work of your man. Pay great attention to his achievements, to be interested in business. If nothing special the man did, then never reproach him for this. If something does not work out, do not tell him that he does not have that age.
During the crisis, a man is very vulnerable and vulnerable. The main task of a woman is to get him out of this state as soon as possible. The very man from this state is very difficult to get out.
At the onset of the mid-life crisis, start rehabilitating your man with support. Show him how dear you are to him, always be with him, tell him that he is everything to you. It is necessary for a man to feel his importance. Great power is possessed by words. Talk to him and do not allow yourself to close in yourself. When it starts to overwhelm emotions, it will tell you all that is in his soul. At such moments, listen carefully to the man. After that, his heart will feel better.
Show the man how you admire him and be proud. Actions are also needed to pass this stage in men. Diversify your life by hiking in the theater, cinema, a concert, a restaurant. It all depends on your imagination. You can also order a sauna, invite friends, go on nature, go to a rest in a hot country, etc. You have to let your man know that life at this age is just beginning. You can think of any entertainment, the main thing is not to let the man again fall into an unpleasant state.
Despite the psychological state of men, sex is for him a very important moment in life. It is necessary to help him to open a second wind in this field. To make sex happen at "height", feed it with products afrodziakami. More often arrange romantic dinners.
Changes in men after the crisis of middle age
If it is right to support a middle-aged man with love and care, then the crisis will be much faster. The most important thing is the desire for success. After overcoming a new stage a man changes in his views on life. Becomes more courageous, judicious, with a reserve of new forces. He becomes wiser and realizes that real life is just beginning. And in most cases, if he went "left", he returns to the family.