A strange husband is your booty

Of course, that women know perfectly well that taking someone else's is not good. Most will agree that taking a man out of the family is bad, some people think that they would never be able to do this. But sometimes it's so hard to get past what's bad. Some women are proud of their ability to frown on other people's husbands and explain such kleptomania with their own attractiveness, which a rare man can withstand. As if there was a tony, a romance with a married man happens in almost every second girl. And the fact that somewhere there is a wife and children is not always the fact that can stop if your happiness is at stake. How can you make someone else's husband your own?


Your chances.
Know that you can not take every man out of the family. The relationship between a married man and a mistress can last for years, but they do not always end with his divorce and your wedding. If a man has a clear system of values, into which a family gets, it is almost impossible to withdraw him. He can recognize that there are problems in the family, that feelings have faded away, but the responsibility to his wife and children will not allow him to take a decisive step in your direction. If you are sure that you are the mistress of such a tough nut, you do not need to spend your time and energy on him, chances are that in a dozen years you will still be on the sidelines, no matter how well he treats you.
The man who hurries to transport his socks to you after a short acquaintance is not so good, explaining it with passion and fervent feelings. Most likely, this ladies' man has already done this way before you and always returned to his wife. His feelings cool down as quickly as they light up.
In addition, there is no guarantee that a man who has left the family will not do it again. Only next time in the role of a deceived wife you will be yourself.

Offensive.
Let's say you've decided everything and are ready to take risks. Your goal is a happy life with a stranger. What can I do to change a man's place of residence and his priorities?

1) A woman is a holiday.
You must be the person with whom he is easy. Despite the problems, pms and his moods, you should radiate warmth and affection, even if it is not easy. The man is able to draw the simplest conclusions and understand where he is better.
2) Be different.
Well, of course, from his wife. In time, you will know something about her. Husbands often complain about the bad habits of the wife, talk about what caused the collapse and the relationship, blame themselves and her. Listen and hunker. If the wife has become stale after giving birth, has ceased to follow, began to arrange scandals and scenes of jealousy, you should be her complete opposite. Do not be jealous, do not shout, do not forget about the gym and the renovation of the wardrobe. Be an anti-wife. As you know, contrasts are noticed most often.
3) Let him participate in your life. The more he puts in you - and feelings, and experiences, and actions, the more you will become to him. If your relationship is too burdensome for him, he will try to leave them as such. So do not be shy to ask him for help, but try not to ask for anything that would be too hard for him to do.
4) Do not open up completely. A woman must be enigmatic, however funny, but this trivial truth works in our day. One of the reasons why he lost interest in his wife, perhaps, is that he managed to study all of its secret places. It became predictable, and therefore uninteresting. So leave a piece of yourself, inaccessible to his gaze.
5) Be able to listen and hear. It is important for a man to be understood, so he will appreciate your sincere interest in themselves. Do not ask unnecessary questions, but be keenly interested in everything that he is ready to discuss. And try not to miss the ears of what he says to you. Perhaps his speeches will slip a hint at his future plans for you or some other important information.
6) Do not insist. Do not demand immediate decisions and actions from him, only if your unclear relationships do not last too long, and his promises should have come true long ago. If you have joined together not so long ago to make oaths of eternal love and promise to reunite "after vacation", "tomorrow", "when children grow up", do not insist on leaving the family. Just say that you love him, that you dream of a strong relationship, about what is ready to do for him and about what he wants to hear.

Usually a man leaves his wife in the first year of a relationship with his mistress or does not go away at all. Of course, there are exceptions, but not so many. If you are satisfied with the position of an eternal mistress, then no effort is required and you do not need to. If you consider yourself worthy of a family and honest relationship, you will have to try to get them. But, still, it's better if a man is free, like you.