According to the conclusions of scientists and doctors of neuropathologists, childhood hysteria is nothing but a manifestation of a strong aggression, anger, irritation and even despair. This emotional outburst is accompanied by crying, screaming, chaotic movements of the body (arms, legs, head, trunk). Sometimes during a hysterical child temperature rises, the face turns red and becomes stained. Causes of childhood hysteria can be a failure to meet the needs and desires, many children are hysterical in places of common use, for example, shops, markets, hospitals, kindergartens. Under such circumstances, the emergence of hysterics (public places), parents try to calm the child indulging him in everything, but this is extremely improper behavior of parents, because children use hysterics only for the purpose of getting what they want and only in the presence of spectators.
Mainly childish whims and hysterics are not frequent in the behavior of the child, however, there is a smaller percentage of children who manifest the so-called chronic hysterics, they can be caused by starvation, weakened by the nervous system, lack of sleep, overwork, unhealthy atmosphere in the parent in the house. Remember, it is very important that your child is physically satisfied.
When there is a child's hysteria at home, many parents use the method of suppressing the child, adults raise their voice, insult, threaten physical harm, and in some cases even beat their little children. How to avoid wrong parenting, the behavior of parents in this situation? The answer is simple, initially the parent should calm down, go out into another room, rudely wait out the storm, make tea and something tasty to him, call the child or come up alone, offer to wash and blow your nose, take a book of your favorite fairy tales and read to the child, and when it cools tea, make tea with the child. Here you will see the child himself will calm down, only not in any way do not lisp with him, do not ask for forgiveness.
In the practice of doctors there is an established fact that children aged one to five years are more prone to hysterical fits and hysterics. Children of older age are more relaxed about discharging factors, while they understand that parents can be offended, punished or deprived of sweets. When raising a child, you need to explain and motivate your behavior more often in this or that situation, explain to the child that you can achieve your goal in different ways, for example, deserve, and not necessarily be capricious and make hysterics, because such ugly behavior will not do anything good. Also, when raising your child, it is important to understand and appreciate him, if you are unable to prevent and calm the child's tantrums, then contact qualified specialists who will help your child and understand each other in time. After all, negligence and neglect of the described situation can lead to very negative consequences that will manifest themselves in the older age of the child.