Family lawyers: revelations about divorce

For some broken-down married couples, the divorce was the impetus for a new, full of positive, life for each of the former spouses. At the same time, during the divorce proceedings, lawyers noted with their clients mutual feelings of compassion, understanding, concessions and generosity towards each other. Others can not get rid of the pain and hatred of their former partners. Most often, it is they who are dominated by vile, vindictive behavior, pushing towards actions that are in violation of morality and law. Leading experts of Europe on family law, lawyers with 20-30 years of experience have opened the veil over some tricks of the "scattered" parties, calling them just "dirty tricks", warning that such controversial decisions still have a private character and are caused often just a human instinct for self-preservation in the current situation, and certainly not recommended for use. After all, some of them are illegal!
Moving to another country to get more favorable conditions for a divorce.
The situation, at first glance, seems contrived, but it happens more often, we think. The spouse (or spouse) who has conceived a divorce begins to push to the idea of ​​moving abroad, colorfully painting all the charms of a new life - climate, political and financial situation, etc. In fact, the insidious husband expects less financial loss in the event of a divorce. Lawyers advise - do not be idealistic. Even if your family boat is not threatened, in advance calculate for yourself what the situation will turn out for you if your relationship suddenly deteriorates. Before you move, require the conclusion of a new, post-mortem, agreement that will determine where the divorce will take place, where the children will live and what financial calculations will be between you after the divorce.

Using hired agents to covertly monitor the spouse, listening to the phone, "bugs" in the office and car .
Spying for a spouse can have unpleasant consequences for you, because it will be difficult for you to explain your intentions at the trial. Even if it's an eavesdropper placed under the seat of the car on which you managed to record all the phone calls, your actions are illegal. A lawyer and a judge who values ​​his reputation will not find them necessary arguments and will not be attached to the case.

Secret photocopying of each scrap of paper with financial information in the house and in the office that belongs to the spouse .
Each of the spouses has the right to confidentiality of information and is obliged to openly and honestly disclose the reasons for the divorce. Documents obtained illegally can not be used by your lawyer and must be immediately forwarded to your spouse's lawyer. Spouses receiving information in this manner may be fined or civil or criminal cases opened. The law also prohibits hacking a spouse's computer, intercepting and opening messages before they are delivered to the correct address. Do not play with the law, your hasty actions will only lead to prosecution and create you a lot of unnecessary problems.

Putting aside "for a rainy day" as much money as possible.
Many clients of family lawyers take pre-emptive measures to conceal their money long before the start of the divorce proceedings. Rich people open bank accounts in the offshore areas for front men. The less well-off do deposits in the relatives' bank accounts. It comes to the fact that "quietly" the assets are sold, and the proceeds are pumped over the same scheme to offshore. When the second half recovers, it is too late to do anything else.

Deliberate damage, destruction or sale of the most valuable property, especially that which the spouse values.
Such situations, when for the sake of dirty tricks are ready for anything, lawyers meet at every step. The wife sells the piano piano's rare piano without his knowledge, while he was on tour, the husband can saw off the legs of the office furniture, sold for a penny valuable jewelry, even an airplane! One woman in a fit of anger threw in the bath suits and ties of her husband, and then voluptuously flooded them with boiling water and bleach.

Spend money right and left, motivating these costs as a payment for the upcoming divorce.
As a rule, this is the form of revenge of the rejected wife. Husbands do not immediately realize that with their credit cards something is going wrong! But they have the right not to pay household bills. The court has no power to return money back, which was wasted, so that a small control over the state of the account on the card will allow it to be saved from paying his wife's purchases.

7. Using friends as spies to gain access to the law firm and learn first-hand what's going on.
Lawyers consider this the top of meanness even in relation to them. The woman pretends that she is his wife's friend, offers a helping hand in communicating with her lawyers, learns tactics and suggested advice, and tells it all back to her husband. Therefore, lawyers forbid their clients to come to them with "friends" in tow.