Surely you have met in your life female representatives who can not be called women, the first word that comes to mind is "aunts." So who are these aunts and how not to become one of them?
Whom do we call "aunts"? Only aunts can complain of hot sand, too cold a sea, they are annoyed by other people's children, and on their own they just yell, however, as to their husband, and to strangers who derive them, only they can eat for half an hour on the beach 3 hamburgers, although they themselves certainly buy for themselves already swimwear size XXXL ...
When we see such people, then immediately for ourselves we designate that never and never will we become like them. However, many say that in our time they did not plan to become such ...
So how many years will the aunts take?
Sometimes, there are also classmates and odnogruppnitsy, which in 16 and 19 years can be safely called aunts.
After all, normal people at a young age go to concerts, plays, movies, on dates, and those on their minds only go to the supermarket for a bunch of carbohydrates and fats and go back to vobschizhitie or home. They constantly frighten roommates for the mess and inability or unwillingness to prepare a rich, compound dinner.
These aunts did not skip classes, but the ratings above the three still did not receive. However, their biggest and most lofty dream is "I want to get married" (of course, no one is nervous about calling such girls married, and they themselves are not taking any for this). Communicate with such women is boring, because all they can tell is how to go profitably to the store, what, where and at what price is sold, moreover, they are very fond of teaching life, because aunts are always confident that they are right!
But if you look at it with a different look, then your aunt can not be introduced, because age does not always translate you into another category, for example, Juliet Binoche, Sophia Loren, Madonna look ...
What is the life of aunts based on?
How can I not become a disgusting aunt? It's fun and easy to relate to life, dream, do not be afraid of the new, fulfill your desires, achieve goals.
At the aunt in my head are continuous. Here are some principles that the classic aunties live by:
- "To not be ashamed before people." Of course, her aunt unconditionally believes that her opinion is the most correct in the world, and she tries to impose it on everyone around her, but somewhere deep in her soul, she takes offense very deeply, if someone condemns her, indicates its shortcomings and shortcomings. Therefore, such a person is ready to do what they do not want and they do not like it, but they do, because: "what will the people say?".
- "Order should be everywhere - this is the main thing." Everywhere and in everything the order must reign. Especially it is necessary to pay attention to the economy. "After all, most people think this is right. It is necessary to spend the whole summer at the dacha, or else the Colorado potato beetle will eat. I'll leave, but what will people do? "And if we go to the sea, giving away weeds will become a" disorder "!
- "The main thing is that as with people." Aunts are very jealous, and without rassabororostvenniki it, friends, neighbors, enemies ... Know it has almost no its ideas and desires, because it lives the lives of other people. Therefore, they think that it is necessary to live, because other people, like Zinka's neighbor, who lives across the road or neighborKatka, who lives through the fence. After all, aunts are very afraid to do something in their own way, they are afraid to stand out from the crowd. Initially, they go to school, after school in the school or college, then after they get married, they give birth to a child in a year or two and then a second. And, of course, work. But this is only if you can not get married or a bogus husband refuses to keep. That's all that aunt needs in the aunts, the only thing left is to live to retirement, and gradually turning from an aunt to a grandmother. This is of course a global meaning, in fact, the aunt can use "the main thing is that as in people", when he chooses a carpet on the wall or makes her husband stick the tile on the ceiling and so on.
How do your aunts look?
The exteriors of the aunts are quite different, but they can be divided into two subspecies: the victorious and richer .
Aunt, which is "more victorious", in fact, can have the same income as the rich. She simply has a different attitude to money. She says: "The farm must be kept, where else to spend on rags and cosmetics, and I do not need it all, I'm not 20 years old, I'm not going to flaunt with anyone ...".
In what poor aunts go:
- Instead of a fur coat they wear a down jacket, and from October and till April!
- they adore breeches - short stupid tartars who can not emphasize the figure of a slender girl, and full-bodied women, all the more so. When they put the down jacket into the closet for summer storage, they get out breeches and an elephant size T-shirt.
- they prefer the t-shirts, the more, the better.
- sandals, shoes, sandals and other spring-summer shoes they replace with flip flops.
This means that her aunt walks in what she likes, and most importantly, it is cheap. Style and general appearance is for them, they do not think about it. Moreover, aunts are sure that they do not need it. Probably, it was precisely these poor, greedy aunts that invented the words "good cloth" and "non-marble".
In short, you can become an aunt because you do not have the material means, but simply because you do not care about yourself and your appearance.
Those aunts that are "richer" do not have a million-dollar capital in Swiss banks, they just require a muzhinorkovaya coat. And then also from October to April they go in it. "Rich" aunts are proud of the fact that they have money, so they try to show it with their appearance.
In their wardrobe you can certainly find:
- if not a mink, then a karakul coat to the ankle. Moreover, there you can see not only the fur coat, but also the same cap, but they still ride in buses and trolley buses, and take up a lot of space in their transport with their dimensions.
- gold - it's rings, chains, huge chunks ... Moreover, all jewelry is worn even in the daytime, even in the store, and even with a trowel and t-shirt.
- sweaters with a different kind of shiny. Onyh are worn even on weekdays.
In other words, "rich" aunts are constantly dressed so "that everyone could see that they can buy it for themselves". Aunts do not buy modest expensive things, it must shine!
Style and taste are not taken into account ...
Therefore aunts tend to buy the bride, and "consumer goods", everyone wears, because "many know what the price of this thing, and therefore, will appreciate and see that I gave a lot of money!"
In order not to become such, you need at least to buy things that you can buy in every third module of the clothing market!
How do aunts relate to a career?
Many are mistaken when they think that if they do not work, they will become aunts. In fact, exactly 50% of aunts are women who work.
The aunts just refer specifically to the work, they are not interested in it. Moreover, they are also not interested in other important moments in life.
Aunts can not build an interesting career, because they have no time for scandals, quarrels and bickers. They try to beat out at least some position in some state-run institution. They can not work seriously and achieve real success!
What to do in order not to become an aunt?
What women are not threatened to become an aunt?
- Women who care for themselves, follow the style and fashion.
- Cheerful and optimistic.
- Enthusiastic. And no matter what they are passionate about, family, hobby or work. Remember that the more you have interests in life, the more you distance yourself from the image of your aunt.
- Ready to admit their mistakes and learn.
- Loving and loved. After all, love constantly gives us the opportunity to feel, therefore it is impossible to become stale and rigid.
Let's hope that among the vetnet aunts, and you never will!