1. You will never have a second chance to make a first impression . This is the main principle of the first date. And that from the fact that you do not have a good outfit and a bad mood was. With this attitude to your first date, you simply can not appoint a second. So, there will be no more chances to defeat him on the spot.
2. You talk a lot about your own merits and yourself . Of course, every woman likes a man to make a favorable impression. But such advertising of oneself as a loved one only causes irritation in a man. A man is sure that he does not need good advertising. So, your eloquence makes him think that you are not sincere. Most men do not like women who are "too many."
3. You constantly chatting is not important about anything without a break . A woman thus struggles with her insecurity and stress. But the man very differently estimates this and you are ranked as a chronic talker.
4. You do not ask the man any questions, do not try to talk him. Thus, you demonstrate that you are not interested in a man. And on the other hand, you deprive him of the pleasure of philosophizing, of telling about his exploits, of assessing how good you are as a listener. After all, this quality is very important for a man.
5. You are dyed and dress defiantly and brightly. And it does not matter at all whether you use this beauty to fight your excitement and insecurity or, in this way, want to hit your man with your beauty. This will please a few. All the rest will prefer good taste, elegance and naturalness. Maybe over time, if your relationship continues to develop, the man himself will ask you about it. But this does not mean that he needs such a detailed confession.
6. You tell a man about your past novels. But it's a fatal mistake to tell on your own initiative, yes, at the first date. The exception is if the man tells about his personal life and waits for a follow-up from you. But in this case it is better not to overdo it with emotions and details.
You need to let him know that you are not a "blue stocking" and enjoyed success with men. A man does not have to learn that all previous novels have ended, not at your initiative, the man should never know about it. Otherwise, you will think that something is wrong with you.
7. You describe your shortcomings at once. This topic at the beginning of dating is better not to affect. The desire to be sincere has killed more than one novel. Therefore, about your inability to save money, dislike washing dishes and your love for the ironic detectives of Daria Dontsova, let him find out later.
8. You are trying to figure out the size of his income. But a man, as soon as he feels a mercantile interest in himself from a woman, immediately loses interest in a woman. It is better to do without these direct questions at first and draw your conclusions on the basis of indirect factors (hours, brand of his car, hobbies, costumes, job stories, ways of spending a vacation).
9. At the end of the meeting, you ask him to meet again. Nevertheless, the man wants the initiative to come from him. By this you demonstrate your interest in it. The man understands that, "everything, the top is conquered already," and is sent to conquer a new one.
10. On the first date, you agree to sex. In that case, consider that it will be your last. There are exceptions to the rules, but very rarely. If a woman agrees to sex, it does in the male eyes it is not suitable for a long lasting serious relationship. A man would not want to marry such an accessible woman. Male logic says that if a woman is available for one, then she also behaves with the others.
The only advice is: when you get acquainted with a man, forget what you had before him, do not run ahead far. Enjoy, socializing and then your relationship will have a future.