How to become a femme fatale

They say that every woman can be proud and confident. The main thing - just try. And still need to have a desire. Although, who does not want to be a woman who is worshiped and does not hurt? In the modern world, more and more girls are disappointed in the guys and think about how to become a femme fatale?

In order to understand how to become fatal women, you need to determine what kind of meaning we put into this concept? What does it mean to be fatal?

Most likely, a fatal woman can be called that lady who knows how to literally charm the guys, behaves confidently and coldly, never allows you to doubt your beauty, strength and charm.

But, how to become fatal, when you are used to being kind, gentle and easy-going, helping everyone and worrying about everyone. To become a woman, before which men are stacked, you need to completely change your worldview and attitudes towards yourself. Often the inability to be fatal comes not only from our kindness, but also from insecurity. When women allow men too much, the reason may be that they are simply afraid of losing their affection and love. Such girls in childhood are not very fond of boys, sometimes mock and look. Having grown older, they find a way out to be friendly with the opposite sex. Such girls manage to become good friends and those women who are not too afraid to lose. But, this state of affairs does not suit anyone. Each girl wants to become unique and unique, one that will be appreciated and respected.

All this can be achieved only by changing oneself. To become fatal is to learn to respect yourself. Many girls believe that they already love themselves enough, but, in fact, they are engaged in self-deception. If you consider yourself to be such a category, answer honestly: how often do you forgive guys what you do not like and justify them. If this is the case, then you still have not overcome the complexes and do not love yourself enough to not be afraid of losing someone. Remember that the people we really need pay attention to our desires and discontent. They do not leave and are not angry, but admit their mistakes. If a man knows that the girl will forgive him for anything, whether he is a loved one or a friend, to a greater or lesser extent, he enjoys it. A fatal woman, no one can ever make unpleasant or painful, and do not suffer punishment for it.

And it's not about the place or life-long offenses. It's just that such a woman respects herself and forces her to reckon with her opinion. Of course, this does not mean that all men should indulge any of your whims. But, they are obliged to listen to your opinion and at least not ignore it.

Therefore, if you want to become fatal - stop being afraid of losing someone. After all, no one forces you to stop helping and understanding. You just can not be forgiving.

In addition, you need to get rid of complexes related to appearance. If a woman does not consider herself to be a beauty, she will never behave like a queen. Knowing about their shortcomings, ladies simply are afraid to flirt, to attract attention, because they think that men can laugh at them.

So remember that you are beautiful. If you do not consider yourself like this, make yourself beautiful. In fact, everything is possible. And do not necessarily go to plastic surgeons. Nobody has canceled sports, cosmetics and things that emphasize virtues and hide drawbacks. Choose for yourself the style that best emphasizes the figure. If you do not know how to paint properly - sign up for visage courses. . In case you are not comfortable with the figure - go in for sports. Beauty is, above all, working on yourself. So try not to relax and do your appearance. Over time, you yourself will notice the result, and others will note it. You will feel that men are looking at you differently. Hence - all the most complicated has already been done. It remains to learn how to communicate with the guys correctly. Of course, for a certain circle of people, you can remain a native, understanding girl-friend. But not for those you want to seduce and conquer. Therefore, do not rush to everyone with open arms. A man must understand that he needs to win your attention. Learn to be a little flirtatious, flirt. Do not listen with great interest to everything the guy says. So he gets the impression that he is a genius, and you are a fool. But do not degrade his dignity. Just try to control yourself. Also, never tell me everything about yourself. A femme fatale is a mysterious woman. Therefore, do not talk about yourself all the details. And, in no case, you can not tell men about their complexes and cause pity. Fateful women no one pities. They do not need it. These ladies can not be offended. No man is worthy of their tears. Of course, this is not entirely true, but guys should not know about it. And, you should not behave yourself. Simply, even if it hurts, learn to turn off your emotions in public.

And yet - watch the men. Do not justify and explain their actions.

Just watch. So you can learn a lot of interesting things and understand how to behave in certain situations. Men are led by understatement, easy detachment. They should never be sure that you are in their power. Only if the guy feels that the fish at any time can jump off the hook, it will make every effort to keep it. Otherwise, the guys lose interest and excitement. Even loving, sooner or later, they relax and stop paying attention to a woman.

Be cunning enough to notice how to manage this or that man. In fact, this is not so difficult. All guys are interested in appearance, sexuality and mystery. And every woman has it all, just not everyone can control their talents because of the complexes. Therefore, believe that you are a queen, and they should seek your attention, but do not overreact. And then everything will turn out.