Because if men are at war with women, they are not men, they are the same women, endowed only with the physiological characteristics of men. Although, perhaps, if you try to make out all possible situations, because of which a man can fight a woman - my point of view will change and I will understand that we sometimes deserve such a war.
Situation one: She left me!
Yes, here such here banal situation. You have met, perhaps even very long, perhaps even very seriously. Or maybe they were preparing for the wedding, well, your man, anyway. I found a highly paid job, I started to collect money, because this celebration is very expensive, especially if the guy wanted to make a fairy-tale wedding for your dream. But suddenly you realized that you were wrong. Perhaps, somewhere began to pop up its "jambs", with which you did not want to put up. Or maybe you just met another person who, in your opinion, is just perfect for you. After all, life is such a thing, full of surprises. And you understand that it is not worthy to remain with a man only out of a sense of habit and pity - that's why you get courage and tell him honestly the whole truth. What then follows? Do you know this person well, could you foresee his reaction? After all, it can be absolutely polar: one man will crawl on his lap for his beloved woman, who leaves him, and the second will start an open war.
Why does a man conduct these truly military operations? Perhaps he wants you to be convinced that he is strong and brave, that any situation is up to him, that he is the best thing that could happen in your life. Or maybe he was just confused, maybe he is by nature slightly aggressive - that's the reaction to your parting, he's so aggressive.
So, how is the man thrown to war with his former beloved woman as usual? What actions can take place in this situation? Here, perhaps, everything depends on the man and his character. If he is inclined to violence - it's very bad, such a guy can just try to hold you by force. And very much to succeed in this - especially if you were a little afraid of him. The way out of this situation is not easy. If you already have a new guy - maybe let them arrange exclusively male conversations and disassembly. However, here ladies are usually frightened - what if the new one turns out to be weaker, will be beaten and scared? And give up on us? Well, then you can be comforted: why do we need a weakling in life? Try to talk to the former yourself. It's normal, without hysterics, just to explain that you have not gone to anyone, that it's in you that you can not ... Use all forbidden methods, the main thing is to avoid violence. If you want, you can cry if your ex-man does it.
Situation two: I like you, but I will not tell you!
This situation is very complex psychologically. Because we are used to the fact that men show sympathy with all their inherent fantasy and tenderness. They shower us with bouquets of flowers, compose for us cute romantic rhymes - and let them not rhyme, but we are still pleased. However, there are men who try to attract our attention, to put it mildly, in an unusual way. They just make war! Such a man usually leads a war openly, in sight, he makes a lot of dirty tricks, but nothing serious and truly terrible from him can not wait, after all, the true goal of this behavior is to win your attention and interest.
Perhaps, once you come out of the entrance, you will find that the walls of the house are outlined, or the bulbs are twisted. Or maybe, defiling with his boyfriend, you'll stand by the road, and next he will drive by car, showering you with mud from under the wheels. He will upset you in some way, but still you will pay attention to him. True, this practice is very rarely successful, but it also exists.
Situation three: It interferes with my career growth!
The case when a man fights a war with a female colleague is one of the most "dangerous" and fraught with consequences. Especially if you are two applicants for a high position, and the woman in all indicators overtakes the guy. Then you need to be ready for anything! Here you have intrigues, and denunciations of the bosses for untimely or poorly executed work. In general, everything, to what it is possible to descend. However, you can also answer the opponent the same, if you want. But just think: will your image suffer from this?
It is better to forgive him and direct all the forces into the work - it will bring much more fruit, and the new position will become even closer to you. Well, if a person frankly interferes with work, then you need to go out with him to an open conversation. If he does not understand then - you need to take drastic measures to eliminate the opponent, because the cunning man has every chance to properly pour you mud and curry favor with his superiors. Well, to such persons (by the way, regardless of their age and sex), it is not worth to give a descent exactly!
The situation is fourth, life.
Well, how little - what did you do to him? Maybe she was unflattering about one of his relatives, or maybe she did not offend them in a word, but in deed? Did she accidentally hit her new car with her handbag? And, maybe, your dog has thoroughly torn his cat, or did you inadvertently flood it? Well, war can break loose in such cases, especially if both sides are impulsive and expressive enough, unable to contain their emotional impulses.
In such cases it is better to find an amicable way out of the conflict, so as not to stretch the situation for many years. Especially if you're still seeing this man every day!
Remember - if a man is fighting a war with you, then you are very hooked. And if you really are annoyed by these warlike actions, then learn to look for a way out of dangerous situations, and with the maximum benefit for yourself. Well, what did you think? Is it easy to live? ..