But even the most successful object, incorrectly donated, can lose all to the last drop its attractiveness for a girl. It's nice that this pattern works and vice versa: if you can not get an expensive gift, then an insignificant thing can become a luxurious gift if you arrange it with a presentation worthy.
Capital Truths.
Despite the fact that these gift giving rules have already flown around the planet many times in numerous textbooks on psychology, ethics and etiquette techniques, and simply in popular magazines, men with the persistence of a well-known animal continue to ignore these obvious conditions. So, how to give gifts to a girl, so as not to offend her?
First, a painful question of all times: what to give. You can not give something that was presented to the donor himself. Strongly do not give any things that can be associated with a girl with her flaws. Antiperspirant deodorants, anti-cellulite cream, skin balm, cleansing gel for problem skin, ointment against acne, etc. Generally, cosmetics for a girl if given, then - as an original symbolic gift accompanied by a humorous explanation of the reasons for choosing namely a specific subject. It is unlikely that a girl will perceive a gift, a etiquette not provided for in such a role. Alcoholic beverages, accessories for a smoker, household small appliances, etc. All this - for her personally, does not carry an understanding of her special qualities, desires, character traits. This girl will offend rather than please.
Secondly, when to give - a question much more important than the donors themselves consider. The moment you need to choose the right, relevant, convenient for the girl. There is no need to wake up a lover at 7 o'clock in the morning to give her a ticket for the evening theatrical show. She will be happy if she is, then in the evening - staying on this show, quite possibly, already without the previously supposed chevalier, who angered her in the early morning. To present a gift correctly, you need to choose a time when she will remain alone, will be in a good mood and will not be distracted from the act of giving on her thoughts and experiences. The ideal moment is either before everyone else starts giving her gifts (if it's her birthday or another holiday in her honor) or after she receives the last gift from the rest-friends, acquaintances, relatives.
How, actually, to give gifts to the girl?
The answer to this question, in fact, is limited to three requirements: boldly, confidently, with a smile. But most of the guys are not enough. Their smile turns out a little curve, the courage evaporates somewhere, when the eyes of others turn to him, and his eyes begin to perform uncontrolled actions, swinging from one corner of the room to the next.
In fact, it is enough to understand one simple truth, so as not to be afraid to give a gift to your beloved girl. Whatever the relationship between her and her lover, no matter how long they were familiar, and whatever happened between them yesterday - every girl expects a gift from her chosen one. For her, it is not so important what exactly is it for a gift (if it's not an offensive subject for her, of course), as the very fact of its availability. She already accepted this gift in advance, was pleased with him and rehearsed a smile of gratitude for his receipt. And her true feelings about this gift, the chosen one still does not know the end of the holiday. Accordingly, and there is absolutely nothing to be afraid of. The same goes for the sudden gifts, which every girl secretly expects from her boyfriend, but who always surprises her with unspeakable surprises. In any case, she will be pleased with the very act of attention, and if a gift is chosen for her and with her thoughts, she will certainly feel it and will certainly respond with a warm attitude to the gift. His own excitement in the process of giving a man only puts his beloved in an awkward position. And if at that moment he still demonstrates uncertainty, then everyone around him becomes clear: he did not spend enough time to choose a gift, now he doubts his success.
You can not hide your eyes, handing your girlfriend a gift. In the end, after all, he devoted a lot of time, energy and imagination to his choice. So is not it worthy to appreciate the result of the invested effort - its glittering hundred crystal eyes glare? To speak an accompanying speech, before giving gifts, also need to be loud and clear, so that she can hear, all the surrounding and even curious passers-by. After all, he was preparing these words for her. He thought about his feelings for her when he wrote the text, dreamed of her smile, when he composed compliments, missed her when he put his thoughts in clear, concise phrases.
The best ways to give a gift to a girl.
Practice numbers hundreds of men who managed to overcome their internal fears and doubts, and learn how to treat girls precisely in the style in which a fragile sex loves it. True, among such representatives of the strong half of humanity there are almost only smoothies. But what prevents to use their useful experience - for example, in the question of how to give a gift to a woman - for yourself?
So, how did the heroes of thousands of romance novels give presents to their numerous fans? First of all, we must not forget that the reason for donating can be not only classical holidays - international women's day, New Year, birthday, birthday, etc. These days the girl receives many gifts and even against her wishes, the subject, presented to her beloved, may well be lost in a pile of other found things. What will be more spectacular is an unexpected gift, timed to a date related only to their relationship. A small cute little thing in honor of 10 days from the date of the first kiss, a neat souvenir, as a reminder of the first Monday after a long separation. Anything can become a starting date for the occasion of presenting a gift. And almost no woman can resist such a surprise.
Secondly, to give gifts unexpectedly: waking up your favorite breakfast in bed, returning from the store for 20 minutes later than promised, and even in the middle of his own phrase about the recently watched film. Any moment from which a woman does not expect a gift will be ideal for his presentation. But without fanaticism, of course: bother her for sharp onions, threading the needle in the eye, showering, etc., - in order to present a plush dragon, it is not worth it.