Resuscitation of the senses.
No matter how sad it may sound, but most of the married couples with such a problem in marriage, like the fading of love, face quite often. To a greater extent this is due to the disappearance of passion and former feelings and desires. Once passionate spouses, start much less time to devote to sex and may even begin to cause irritation in each other. In this situation, you must refresh your senses. There are several rules by which you can discover new horizons for relationships and rekindle feelings if you stop loving your spouse.
So, the spring cleaning and visit to the parents should be postponed for the best time. After all, all these urgent matters are not so urgent. For behind the life and cares, we very often forget that we are young, beautiful and love each other! After all, there were once times when you could not tear yourself apart from each other for work or ran off to lunch break to enjoy each other. Why now do we hardly return feelings if he stopped loving and trying to somehow keep the marriage? Drop all negative thoughts aside and start acting, reanimating his feelings one hundred percent.
Adult games.
How can I get it back if I fall out of love, if I'm cold? How to restore the former feeling that you are loved. First of all, it helps to "remember" about this, of course, sex. And not just sex, but a unique passionate and unforgettable night of love (and not one). It is not necessary, when you come home to dream about sleep at once, remember that sex is very important in family life and if the spouse is satisfied with an intimate life, then in other spheres everything will be fine and you will never be able to stop loving him. So postpone all business and right next weekend turn off your mobile phone. And your favorite phone too. And do not forget about the home phone. Simply imagine that you, along with your faithful, were thrown onto an uninhabited island, where there is no one else besides you. But before doing this, take care of "spiritual food". It is better to do it together with the spouse. Together, select a pair of erotic films. Silk bed linens, scented candles and several discs with a calm melodic melody. Do not forget about the new erotic underwear. By the way, to look into the sex shop is also a good idea, which will diversify your sex life. And finally, hide your favorite home jeans away. Frivolous silk dressing gown or full "nude" - this is your home clothes for this weekend. And then everything is as planned, it remains only to include imagination and to use all the "props" stored in advance. Believe me, if your spouse has fallen out of love, this will certainly help re-ignite former feelings and passion in him.
We rejoice in small pleasures.
To refresh and regain feelings, pamper your spouse. Very often representatives of the fair sex are inclined to take all life problems on the head of their husband and at the same time completely forget about tenderness, warmth and affection. Remember when you last spoiled him with a romantic dinner by candlelight or a walk in the moonlight. Remember that those who do not forget to show tenderness, always remain loved and desired. And the intimate sphere never suffers. Do you want to return his love? You are welcome! Go for a walk, but not in the center or shops, but in some park. Find there a desolate place, sit on the litter taken from the house, sip a bottle of champagne straight from the neck, eating fruit, kiss until self-oblivion. Remember how you started it all and again, immerse yourself in your feelings. Believe me, he will, without fail, like you, enjoy the time spent and remember how well he is with you all the same.
Leave all your problems behind the walls of the house.
Never step over the threshold of your apartment, carrying with it a problem that occurred at work. Leave all the negative behind the threshold. Yes, and give up in the period of "resuscitation of feelings" from taking work on the house (if you, of course, used to practice it). Devote yourself to your husband, watch an interesting film with him, read together a fascinating book. Or just do the usual homework together. It will certainly rally you and help to get closer, if you feel chill.
Be able to make the necessary surprises.
If you are planning an unforgettable candlelight dinner for the evening, be sure to hint to your wife about it. Believe that in anticipation of the expected surprise he will certainly raise his spirits and this will help you to spend a successful evening. Do not be afraid to be different, especially with regard to sex. After all, men like these "libertines" themselves, why do not you try this image on yourself. So if the spouse, as you think, you fell out of love, before your surprises, he certainly will not stand.
What you do not need to do if he does not fall in love.
Do not once again annoy your spouse, turning him into your girlfriend. Do not tell him about what new mascara appeared in the store, that you have added extra pounds, and your girlfriend Svetka once again parted with her boyfriend. A man must constantly win and seduce, and not load unnecessary topics. And women's problems strongly repel men and this should always be remembered.
How it was…
In order to again fall in love with a spouse, connect your sense of humor. For example, meet his house in one apron. All these small, at first glance, details help to restore the former passion. Also refresh feelings can help and past memories. If you felt the coolness on his part, look at the old photos with him, remember the pleasant moments. All this will certainly raise your spirits and help you understand that your old feelings have not faded away. Thanks to such memories, you can love each other again.