All relatives are waiting for the wedding, and before the wedding it did not come. When feelings have passed irrevocably for partners, what kind of wedding is there ... Everyone understands that it was not love, not true love, but only the love of partners in each other. And maybe this love has not yet grown into love? Why?
When people are just beginning to meet, the natural desire of both partners is to look in the eyes of another person better than you really are. This is the main mistake in building relationships between lovers. In the candy-bouquet period, the deficiencies in upbringing and behavior that partners have, and which can present them in a disadvantageous light in the eyes of a beloved, beloved, are carefully monitored and not shown to the partner. Such control continues until the partners explain each other in love. The explanation has taken place, the confidence has come that the candy-bouquet period has ended and now it is possible to relax. This is where the greatest danger for partners lies.
Partners begin to behave the way they are used to in everyday life. And this is completely different people. "Why did not I see this before (l)? He is rude, ill-bred, not at all (such) as what (oh) did I imagine him (her)? "In a state of falling in love, a person does not see these shortcomings (they are hidden from the eyes of partners), and now the partners do not want with them to put up and accept them. Partner's habits for another person are unbearable and disgusting. Lovers part. Well, if it happened before the wedding, and if after it, then the divorce is inevitable. What happened to the previous love? When feelings have passed irrevocably for both partners, they can not both together and do not want, so the best option for both of them is a balanced mutual decision - to part forever, at best retaining at least friendship.
It often happens that during a period of extreme fatigue, for example, at the time of the birth of the child or during the defense of the thesis, an irritation accumulates on the partner. Young parents are nervous because of new responsibilities, everyone tries to remove from themselves the solution of the problem, although it would be possible to solve them together together, it would take away the irritation and save the feelings. And sometimes young people selfishly do not want to accept the impossibility of being together, because one of them has an urgent job or some other very important family event. Then the mutual irritation grows, the partners can not cope with it, and they both feel that the feelings go away irrevocably for them both. This is the appearance of the problem, it can be solved if, at the moment, it is to understand the difficulties of a loved one and meet with him when he resolves his problems. Then you can still save feelings. Unfortunately, during such periods, emotions overwhelm the edge, in a fit of irritation people manage to talk to each other a lot of unpleasant, offensive words, the "return point" is passed, then the moment comes when the partners are clear that their feelings have passed, there is no more love, tenderness and respect to each other. Then do not try to hold each other, everyone has the right to leave, do not perceive the rupture of relations as insult or humiliation, just understand that this decision is the only true for both and let go of each other in peace. Life on this did not end, having a good experience in building relationships, start all over again, now you will succeed, believe in it.