Why is he alone ?
In fact, the reasons why your child is lonely may be somewhat. For example, a feature of character. Moreover, this feature ispolypolarnoy, that is, a shy and quiet shameless "leader" is difficult to get friends. The shy, quiet-minded person is not sure and does not know what to interest the peers. The unceremonious "leader" loves to control everything, dictate the rules of the game. Moreover, he demands from others unconditional submission, as a result, children refuse to be friends with him, as this is not what everyone likes.
Another cause of the child's loneliness is the external situation - moving to a new place, which is often accompanied by a transfer to a new kindergarten. A small child in an unfamiliar collective is not easy.
Maybe a child just does not know how to make friends - he does not know what friendship is, he can not establish and develop contacts with seniors. In this case, the task of the parents is to teach the child to understand how important it is to have friends. Moreover, the child must know how to behave with friends. In this case, moralizing conversations can not be. Tell your child stories about your girlfriends and friends, watch cartoons about friends with him, sing songs about friendship with him.
Personal example
Look closely at your problems, and then solve the problems of the child. Do you have many friends? Do you often meet with them? Do you provide support in difficult times? If your friends are far from being in the first place, then you should not be surprised, since the child by inheritance passes the parental model of behavior.
The value of friendship for you should be a guide to action, not a theoretical declaration. If the child will see how his father helps his companion to repair something, my mother visits a sick girl in the hospital, my grandmother and her friends go to the theater, then he will learn the lesson of friendship well.
How to find friends
It is necessary to begin with the first step - acquaintance. A child can and wants to make friends in the garden or on the playground with someone, but does not know how to do it. The task of the parent is to tell the child how to address the boy, and how to the girl, if he wants to get to know them. First, it is possible to organize for children a game that would interest them, and re-arrange them, let them play together. For example, you can play catch-up, hide and seek, bouncers. You can sing a song from a cartoon together, play a light fairy tale with foams (for example, "Kolobok"). The more a child communicates with children, the greater his chances of finding friends.
In all preschool institutions, children learn in new situations to work together, develop communication skills.
Invite other children to visit. To do this, you must have games at home, in which you can play together, the three of us. Prepare pleasant gifts for children and organize a sweet table. You too go on a visit.
Going to visit, draw a picture or bake a friend a pie, the child should understand that they do not go to guests with empty hands. Ask a foal about his friends. If one of the child's friends fell ill, sympathize with them, if there was success, rejoice.
In everything you need to know the extent, in friendship including. Therefore, teach the child without hysterics and leave the house of the owners on time. Carefully observe the behavior of the child at a party.
If the games with Misha end in a fight, and the campaign to Liseza ends with tears, it's better not to insist on their friendship, perhaps the children of the Potemperate do not approach each other.
Sometimes it happens the other way around, your child is strongly attached to someone, and if he is not around, falls into hysterics, and when he sees that he is playing with other children, he is madly jealous. In this case, the child should explain that his friend can play with others, and this is not a betrayal.