In this case, there are many ways to solve this problem, for example, one of them, make a novel on the side, and get by treason what is missing in your family relationships. In this article, we will consider whether it is worth changing to her husband.
First of all, it will be necessary to discuss a few restrictions, we will not touch on the moral and ethical side of this issue. Also, we do not consider one-time, random changes (after a couple of cocktails at a party or treason from revenge, as it is difficult to call them deliberate), we will consider that relationship with the lover we are going to consciously and that are not limited to one or two times.
So, before answering the question, whether it is worth changing or not, it is necessary to understand what is the cause of betrayal, as, as it was written above, we are considering those infidels to which you are going quite consciously. Typically, the reason that pushes for treason, are the following factors: the desire to tickle your nerves, lack of sex in your family life with your husband, lack of attention and warmth from her husband. Let's look at each of these reasons in more detail and try to figure out whether it's worth changing for her.
A desire to tickle your nerves.
As we understand, the forbidden fruit is sweet. And in the situation of betrayal, especially, no matter how it was thought out and planned, there is always an element of risk, there is no one extreme. All these secret talks, calls, meetings, secret apartments, etc., all this can perfectly tickle your nerves, and many women like this. Do not just get an erotic pleasure, but also a share of adrenaline, because of the realization that you are doing the forbidden act, and this is addictive. But the question is, whether it's just because of the lack of thrill in life to change a husband, in my opinion, the answer is obvious - it's not worth it. After all, the same adrenaline can be obtained in other ways (extreme sports, for example) and you do not have to cheat your husband and change him. By the same time it will take no more, and threats to your marriage will be much less.
Lack of physical proximity.
Alas, ah, not everything in this life is eternal, and the physical capabilities of your husband, too, of course it's sad, because, as is known, completely harmonious relations, there is no harmony in bed. What to do in this case? Either suffer the lack of sex in your life, or try to fill it. In this situation, a not very close, familiar, single man with a separate apartment and an excellent potency is quite suitable. In this adultery there is nothing but physical intimacy, meetings may very well be infrequent, several times a month, no more. At the same time, your relationship with your husband will be preserved, and the lack of erotic sensations is compensated. So for this example it is quite permissible to betray your husband.
But here we must emphasize that you can go to this step only if you can not return your normal combat form to your husband, or it requires a long treatment (then for the time of treatment, you can have a novel on the side).
Lack of spiritual closeness and attention.
As we understand, everything happens in life, and if you were married, your husband was an ordinary manager and could devote more time to you, then when he climbed the career ladder, it became more difficult. And in this case, many women are looking for romance on the side, this is usually not very passionate novels, but they give you the warmth that you are not receiving in the family. Treason for this reason, in my opinion, is permissible, but these relations should not last very long, for example, in the form of a small resort novel.
Summarizing all of the above, we can conclude that in some cases, changes are permissible, but you should not abuse this.