How to start a new relationship after a divorce

Many women are afraid to start a new relationship after a divorce. Psychologists distinguish the following fears and fears to start a new relationship:

- fears that your future relationship will not go, as you would like and then you will have to start a new relationship from scratch;

- fears that you are too attached to a person, and then part with him. In this case, you again have to take a course of taking antidepressants;

- fears that you will not be able to become that unique, beloved and necessary woman for him, and after all, the years are taking their toll;

- fears in physiological contact - especially when flying;

- The fear of how your relatives and relatives will react to your choice.

In order to start a new relationship you need to forget about old relationships with your ex-husband. To do this, drop everything that so reminiscent of your previous relationship with an ex-man. After you forget it all, you can already think about making your life better. And men feel and see when a woman is ready for a new relationship and only then can come to you to meet. Psychologists advise after the last relationship to try a little change in life: change your hair, change your style of clothes, sign up for a dance or go in for fitness. Therefore, the more actively you forget everything connected with your ex-man, the sooner your future happy life will start to be adjusted.

There are many fears and fears, because of which women are afraid to make a new relationship. But all these fears arise because of your excessive romanticization. After all, you, getting up on roller skates, do not expect from this some kind of super sensation. In this case, you can fall and rip off your knees. And if you are afraid of this all your life, then you can deprive yourself of the pleasure of roller skating. Similarly, in the relationship: until you start - do not know.

Your fears and fears come from a lack of understanding of men and from a low level of your vitality, but it all comes with experience. Therefore, qualified experts advise not to build special illusions about what should be your future man and how your relationship should proceed. Any woman should simply and without fear start a new acquaintance with the guys - to find out how they think, dream, love, work, what they fear, etc. Be especially curious and attentive in communication, try to learn more about this person. You will understand all this in the process of communication and do not need to build any plans for the development of your relationship.

Learn to communicate with men, ask a lot of questions and listen, when they tell you something - be open and relaxed. Communication already gives pleasure, when you are alone, and it is very valuable for a person.

Do not at all think about the fact that it's too late for you to start a new relationship, because everyone has happiness in this world, and men are good. But for this you need to constantly communicate, make new acquaintances, and generally be active in life.

Some women load themselves with different things, just not to think about their past relationship with your ex-man and about the establishment of a new one. Of course, it's not bad to conduct several cases at once, but still you need to allocate time in your hard schedule in order to make a new relationship.

Thus, from the foregoing, the main conclusion can be drawn that there is no need to fear new relations. Forget about your fears and fears and remember that if you do not try to start them, then for the rest of your life you will regret it. Be more active, become the mistress of your destiny and you will succeed!