Mistrust of partners to each other: what does this actually lead to?
It should be noted that during a period of mistrust between a man and a woman, both partners may fall into a sense of extremes or they may be seized with a feeling of strong apprehension, constant suspicion and even jealousy. Over time, this can lead to harsh measures and restrictions in the relationship, which will require both members of the union a huge amount of information about every step taken by a woman and a man. This is where the beginning of the end begins to blossom.
Mistrust between partners and love
Of course, no matter how sadly the picture of the relationship between lovers was born, one always wants to believe that love is a fundamental basis, and a sense of insecurity between the opposite sex is just an accidental negative circumstance. That's why it is necessary to overcome this feeling and try to cope with their emotional experiences. And in order to save feelings between a woman and her lover, it is necessary to identify the main factors that give rise to this or that feeling of insecurity and mistrust.
The main reasons that cause a feeling of insecurity for a woman in a man and vice versa
Many people often tend not to focus their attention on how little they pay proper attention to their partner, but they very quickly reveal this deficiency in his face and at the same time begin to obsessively think that they have never really been loved and not appreciated. More often than not, this mistrust of a woman manifests itself much more than a man, because who, if not the fair sex, can ask the same question day after day the same question: "Do you love me?". And once asked - it means that they do not trust the authenticity of their chosen feelings. Of course, this is typical of the male part of humanity, but in women this uncertainty is much stronger. The lady, as a rule, starts "nurturing" the idea of a place, moving away from her partner. All this creates hostile impulses, which the woman herself openly attributes to her faithful. Here it is, the first reason for distrust in the relationship, which is connected with insecurity in feelings. It should also be said that a sense of suspicion with respect to loyalty and sincerity can sometimes take the form of an obsession. That's why, being in search of attention on the side (or even just thinking about it), a person begins to doubt that his partner is capable of the same. As they say, we all judge by our measure of licentiousness! That's why it is not worth all "to measure under one yardstick", but it is best to try to find in the relationship that zest that will dispel the feeling of insecurity in the feelings and thereby help to find harmony.
Another source of distrust between the man and his companion is the factor that is based on the fact that if love is fastened, then it seems to us as the key to happiness, as the fulfillment of our treasured dreams. It is experiencing love, a person who is dual in essence, in an instant wants to solve all the contradictions and conflicts that have arisen in him and wants materialization of all his secret desires. This love, as a rule, has a direct and immediate aspiration for all our fantasies and expectations. In other words, this love is not for the person who is near, but for himself and his inner "I". But a person, not realizing this, tries to satisfy his dreams in a partner, without getting any result from it. This also generates a lack of confidence in the authenticity of feelings.
The next reason, which can cause distrust, is considered to be a sharp change in the behavior of one of the partners. For example, a woman or a man begins with nothing to do with, carefully monitor their appearance, take an interest in what they did not think about before, strenuously immerse themselves in their work, give their partner flowers, perfumes and other joys of life, make miracles "Kama Sutra" in bed. That's exactly the situation in this situation. What to do: trust or verify? Here it is appropriate to say that all direct evidence is conspicuous, and we try to identify indirect ones by meticulously analyzing the explicit and carefully hidden hidden. People have such a wild fantasy, which sometimes turns into an obsession. In this situation, it is worth noting the fact that if you are guided in life by common sense, then it is worthwhile to conduct a detailed investigation. By the way, his result may turn out to be unexpected: it turns out that in fact all these "clues" will be signs of sincere love. Or maybe the partner just decided to implement all the advice given to him, pleased his soul mate with such changes and become a real man or a real and passionate lady. So, you should never hang on your narrowed (restricted) Laiba infidelity or torment him with suspicions and reproaches. Remember that love and understanding are built only on trust to each other! Begin to trust your loved ones, discarding all doubts and you will certainly notice how your personal life will improve and become moderate, calm and happy! Trust each other and do not disappoint your loved ones! Good luck!