Tchaikovsky's works or the smell of morning baking can not be described. In the same way as to tell what it's like to be pregnant. Such a state you just need to enjoy! We offer you a program of a happy pregnancy and childbirth - a woman's happiness. Yes, around there are a lot of "nice people" whispering in your ear about what burdens the nine months of waiting. Their words sound quite truthful. But their opinion is too one-sided. Therefore, treat such people in the same way as to the unique people who see in the person of Gioconda only flaws, and in the Eiffel Tower - architectural errors. Be above this and think that with you now your with your husband is your favorite boy (or girl). A small, stunning little man who already has his habits and preferences, which has already made you the happiest woman in the world!
Enjoy the company
The unobtrusive interlocutor, the attentive listener, the adherent, after all, are all about the baby. He does not care what you do and feel. Tell me what impression you made on the new Woody Allen film, or together dance to the fast rhythms of the Red Hot Chilly Peppers. Do not be afraid that they will not understand. The child, like you, will enjoy a walk in the park or lunch in a cafe (of course, in a non-smoking room). Just think: you do not feel lonely anymore, because you are inseparable. And the company of crumbs never gets bored during pregnancy! Talk to the baby all the time. Now you can not interrupt your monologue even on the street (in ear earphone from the Handsfree headset - and others will think that you are talking on the phone). No word of yours will pass by the crumbs!
Make the world better
Happiness makes your eyes radiate, reddens your cheeks, and a smile does not come from your lips. What can I say? A 100-watt bulb seems like a dim light compared to the light emanating from you. People see it, feel it, and they like it! In your presence, discontent disappears from persons, passers-by smiles, and friends say compliments ... Sincerely, with a soul! Men hold the door and even give way to public transportation during pregnancy. Gloomy concierges greet and cope about well-being. The world around you becomes an ideal picture, as in the American musical comedy of the seventies: there reign mutual respect, kindness and universal harmony.
Think about the future with pleasure
Probably, there is no man in the world who did not ask himself the question: "And what's next?" Even if the life road is even and visible for several years ahead, you still want to find out where it will lead. To you the destiny has presented the answer: an oasis of happiness. Who would have thought that a tiny leg on the monitor of the ultrasound machine would make the soul tremble more than the original Renoir in the Louvre! Amazing rainbow dreams, bright positive emotions, thoughts about something high and beautiful - these are the privileges of the future mother.
Admire the people around you
Wet asphalt under the light of lanterns turns into a road of shining diamonds. Before, you did not seem to notice that the chirping of birds outside the window is a fascinating music. Look closely and listen: the world around has become brighter. Experts explain this phenomenon by changing the hormonal background. But let's leave the scientific theory alone. Everything is much simpler. Now you have two hearts, two souls, which means that all feelings are exacerbated at least twice. And you can not indifferently pass by the spring flower or admire the bizarre forms of fluffy clouds. Give you a camera and a budget for a couple of million dollars, probably shot the movie "Beautiful" and opened the eyes of humanity to how amazing the most ordinary things can be (a paper bag dancing in the wind is the limit of beauty in American style, but not, in your opinion ).
Forget the calculator
Formerly, mathematical calculations accompanied each of your meals? Now you can afford the luxury to eat as much as you want (especially in the first trimester of pregnancy). Even sweet in moderate amounts is allowed (no more than a third of chocolate per day).
Apple-celery frost is an excellent alternative to champagne, baked with lemon fish - fried in batter. Crispy lettuce leaves, pink veal pulp, elegant splendor of grainy caviar on bread - that's what it means to live with taste! Another nice moment - night snacks are welcome! Class!
Discover the charm of shopping
Are you one of those who think that running around shopping is a waste of time? Or maybe, on the contrary, you live under the motto: "Not a day without a new thing"? In any case, now shopping will only cause positive emotions. It is hardly possible to find an occupation more enjoyable and exciting than choosing a wardrobe for crumbs and an environment for a nursery. Tiny blouses with funny pictures, cozy hats and overalls. And the beds seem to have been made by fabulous craftsmen. At one glance at them you understand: in such magic dreams come! When you walk between the shelves, you feel that you are back in childhood. Only now the game in the "daughter-mother" has become a reality.
Rejoice in the new level of relationships
Did you expect that the beloved, hearing about the imminent replenishment, will feel and buy up the entire flower market, and he just smiled? This does not mean that the husband is not happy: men are by nature far less emotional. Do not press on your beloved, do not harass him with the question: "Are not you happy?" And even less offense. Let me realize the change that has occurred in his life. Then you will become even closer to each other. Love will acquire a new quality, and you will feel care even in small things (classical tea and croissants in bed are guaranteed). In general, just enjoy happiness!
When to tell the joyful news of pregnancy and childbirth - a woman's happiness? You can wait 12 weeks. By this time, the threat of interruption practically disappears, and your tummy becomes more noticeable.
And if it became sad? ..
Do not be afraid of the sudden influx of sadness, fear and anxious thoughts. They usually appear along with a sense of happiness and are absolutely normal. Are you afraid of the unknown and the pain? Learn more about the process of childbirth, read books and magazines, ask questions to doctors. Talk to friends who have already given birth. Awareness will help calm down. Gradually you will cease to be afraid of pain. After all, you know: the body of a woman is adapted to the appearance of a child in the light, and nature itself will help. Think of battles as allies: this is the signal to start! For many, the saving thought is the understanding that everything will soon end and a wonderful baby will appear.