Stories on the topic of women's dominance have already been filled with oskomu. The husband under the heel of his wife is increasingly seen as a natural form of relationships in the family. This situation is far from new. At the dawn of humanity, matriarchy was the most common social order. Famous Amazons are also not an invention of ancient authors. Modern infantile men are the result of the dominance of women in the educational process. And in the kindergartens, and at school, and in the family, the education of boys is mainly done by women. Men are giving more and more time to work and entertainment. And the sons give attention only sporadically. Oils in the fire poured a large number of divorces and the upbringing of children by single mothers.
However, the reason for the increasing dominance of women also lies in their nature. Women have always sought to be free and independent of men. They changed skirts to trousers, dressed jackets, took up weightlifting and boxing. Women increasingly occupy leading positions and become owners of their own business. They have been trying for a century to prove that there is nothing purely masculine. Thus, the liberation from centuries of lawlessness led to a situation in which women became men.
Is it good? Most often domination of a man or a woman in a family does not contribute to a harmonious relationship. Moreover, this situation does not bring joy to either man or woman. On the one hand, sometimes it's nice to realize your importance. But on the other hand, there is a constant pressure of responsibility for decisions made individually. There is no way to consult, analyze your mistakes, and finally, "cry with a vest." The constant domination of a woman over a man spoils her character, which certainly affects the service and family relations. And constant stresses undermine physical and mental health. Men in this situation in something even win. Their lives are more calm and measured. In exchange for obedience and the performance of matrimonial duty, they bargain the three most "important" benefits for themselves - beer, a sofa and a TV. Of course, this is a joke, but many men recognize themselves in it.
By the way, the domination of a woman in a relationship with a man does not at all relieve her of domestic hassle. They all also clean, wash, wash, bring up children. They still do not have time to meet their friends, and the lover simply does not have enough strength. To all the blame of pride: I can do everything myself! I do not need anyone's help! I'm strong and independent! Often, men who have their own dignity, deliberately accept the rules of the game, in order to avoid scandals and clarify the relationship.
However, the question arises, why such unequal relations are strong and lasting? Is not it easier to disperse, as in the sea ships? With regard to men, everything is simple. Probably, it is cozy for them to hide behind "fragile" female shoulders. Above them is not burdened by a burden of responsibility, does not press the status of an earner in the family. They lead a more calm and measured life. And how to explain the behavior of women? Probably, the main reason for maintaining relations is not a maniacal desire to command. Despite the imperious nature and ostentatious independence, any normal woman is most afraid of loneliness! She does not want to be abandoned, no one needs a woman. Therefore, and allows the "under-the-head" husband some liberties. Agree, if the life of a man under the heel of a woman would be unbearable, he would leave her. Serfdom has long been abolished.
Thanks to the stories on the topic of female domination, the wrong image of the family is formed. The absence of equal relations in the family is not a normal phenomenon. This state of affairs indicates great interpersonal problems. Whatever the temptation to occupy and strengthen your leadership, you can not do this. You will suffer from this, first of all, you yourself. But especially - children. They on the subconscious absorb the model of behavior of parents. And when they grow up, they will start repeating their parents' mistakes. Girls will be hard at establishing relationships with the guys. They will try to impose their opinions, not paying attention to the arguments of the partner. And boys can grow up infantile and weak-willed. Remember that the family should be one team! If one "player" gets sick, his duties should be picked up by others and come out victorious from any life troubles.