Loved in prison

So it was led in Russia that often our husbands and loved ones are put in jail for a bag of potatoes or petty misdemeanor, while oligarchs and officials arrange lawlessness and go unpunished. And now, ordinary Russian women and girls have to mourn and grieve when a loved one in prison, wondering how to wait for a loved one from prison. In general, we have no right to condemn people who are brought to such a life to decide on crimes, and then go through a severe school of life in prison, realizing their mistakes. Remember one thing, if your loved one is in prison, then do not take all the mortal sins on his already battered ridge. We are all human beings and have the right to make mistakes, and perhaps suffer for others. The most important thing is not to be discouraged if your loved one is in prison. Life situations are different, but when a loved one is in prison - you are for him the only person who can provide support. The history includes many examples of dating girls and women with future husbands when they came on dates after a long correspondence with them, and, after waiting, created normal families. Perhaps your beloved person in prison, realizing your loyalty and love while waiting, will never forget this, and being freed for freedom all his life will carry you in his arms, blowing off specks of dust from you.

So when your beloved in prison, you need to have patience. Remember the great people of our country who also went to prison. You, along with your loved one who is now in places not so remote, you need to survive, rethink and suffer separation for the time of the conclusion of a loved one in prison.

Believe that having read your letter, a loved one in prison will be happy at least the fact that you do not forget about him. Therefore, as often as possible, write letters, and in them talk about everything that you have in your heart and your feelings for him, love. Write the truth, without exacerbating the situation when your loved one is in prison. It is not necessary to add lies to defuse the difficult situation, which pleased the beloved. Lies have a property to return. Remember that a person who is loved in prison is not a crazy person who does not crave a life of decay after being released. He may, during the time spent in prison, reconsider his attitude to life. Liked in prison, most likely, from a boy will turn into a man with his views on life. AND YOU WILL NEED TO REMEMBER ABOUT THIS. It is not excluded that he will return from prison a completely different person, and you can not continue to live with him under one roof. Be prepared for this turn of events.

However, trust the promises of a loved one in prison that after your release from prison your life will improve. I will give an example of how this happens in other people who suffered this trouble, when a loved one is in prison, and a life turn is inevitable.

One woman, her name and surname for us, do not play any role, since the phenomenon is ubiquitous, they put her husband to steal slate sheet from the construction site. She despaired then strongly in the justice of the Russian Themis. The man who was in prison was the only person close to her, since his own son died 2 years ago in Chechnya. But the court condemned her husband to the full extent of the law, and 3 years spent his beloved in prison. During this time, he aged for fifteen years and looked sixty years after his release. She cried a lot at night in a pillow after hard work, on which she was reproached for her husband - a thief. Despite everything, she managed to keep her love for him.

When a loved one in prison wrote letters asking him not to wait there, she had complete despair. Then she came to him. We talked. And now, 4 years have passed since his release from the colony. They live together, confirming the time that their love is strong and eternal for ages.

So ladies do not despair if your loved one is in prison. Perhaps this is only a small test, both in his and in your life.