Many women tend to create an eternally festive atmosphere around themselves, believing that this makes them more vivid and desirable for the stronger sex. Do you think it is too much? How do men relate to such ventures and to flamboyant girlfriends, who can be compared to a holiday? And specific.
Woman - New YearThe main holiday of the year. On this day, you can not just go to sleep - you should definitely enjoy and have fun, and then certainly show off the original New Year's Eve meeting with friends and colleagues and discuss how others did it. Such a need for many men is a real fear: "Santa Claus, make sure that urgent business at work has appeared, and then you still do not compete." A woman - New Year is confident in herself and that she is the best, most important, most-most. She does not hear much from her partner, she wants to win in comparison with him. To, for example, he constantly said to everyone around: "What a wonderful wife you have, how lucky you are with her!" To laugh at her jokes, admired her successes, celebrated her spiritual qualities. At first, the man triumphs, this amuses his pride. But over time, he begins to decline self-esteem or there is a feeling that he is a stranger on the holiday. Consciously the partner can reconcile to this situation, but in the depths of his heart he will wish to restore his status. Who does not want to be appreciated and rejoiced? Therefore, a woman New Year may prefer some unpretentious, low-key Day reclamation. What is the point of comparing yourself with a partner, to compete, who is better and more festive? On the contrary, modesty (in moderation), attention to him will be supported in him by the certainty that his place in your calendar and in life is very significant. That he is a real holiday for you.
Woman Carnival
Very attractive event . Initially, such holidays for all peoples lasted about two weeks. Gradually, people began to reduce them: it is difficult to withstand the glow of gaiety for a long time. In Brazil, doctors in front of the carnival even give advice on how to have fun with certain groups of people, for example, who have heart problems or a tendency to neurotic disorders. The Ministry of Health of the most cheerful and cheerful country does not recommend to be an active participant in the celebration: on TV look better. A woman-carnival is so bright, sociable and active, that not to fall in love with it, it is simply impossible not to want to be together. But often soon after the wedding a man feels tired. It's time to move on to weekdays, and then again a holiday. And no intention to slow down the pace. On the proposal: "Let's just stay at home today" - the carnival woman replies: "What are you, I will not let you be sad, now I'll figure out how we'll be entertained." Meanwhile, a man by virtue of his psychophysiological characteristics like active fun less than women. They regularly need a full rest: literally lie on the couch and do nothing. We must leave the men alone. Do not say: "Oh, how boring you are" - and do not compare with a new friend who danced with you for several hours. He was dancing right now, because he only saw you. And in the role of her husband, too, he would ask to sit quietly. Carnival has to die down at least once in a while.
Woman - Birthday
So nice that everything is done just for you ! Gifts, warm words, congratulations, wishes. With age, the attitude to the birthday changes - along with fun there is also sadness: after all, every year you get older. However, if the ladies do not interfere with celebrating, for the representatives of the stronger sex, birthdays can become a real stress, and anniversaries are perceived as a difficult test. And all because it is difficult for men to be in the role of a birthday boy. They are not as emotional as women, they do not feel the need for all these "Ah, thank you, how nice, I'm so touched", but feel that you have to behave like this: show gratitude and joy. In addition, the role of the birthday boy is rather passive and often does not allow you to get rid of the arising stress. Those men who were not allowed to organize their birthday, for example, in nature ("Are you on such a day will be at the fire to get dirty?") And forced to celebrate it, say, in a restaurant, often drink too much. In this state, the holiday is not so painful. Women of this type can also become a test. They pay so much attention, so admire, so gently look, that there simply is no salvation.
Yes, men love attention. But it is important for them to win. Therefore, a droplet of fickle indifference in the relationship will not hurt. And if the soul requires all the time to surround someone with care and love, start, for example, a ferret. He and his nerves are strong, and the fur is strong.
The woman - March 8
Men from the very childhood are a little afraid of this holiday . He, on the one hand, gives an occasion to prove himself, to do something pleasant, on the other hand he makes high and incomprehensible demands. It is necessary to give gifts, most to clean, get up earlier and prepare breakfast, even if in the morning no one in the family eats. It is necessary to congratulate, even if the woman assures: "March 8 - complete nonsense", and do it in an original way, so as not to say then that the greeting was formal. You have to be there all day long and do not forget to say kind and touching words to her mother and many other women ... In general, this is a trap! It will not be possible to bypass it - March 8 is inevitable. Business trips, overtime or, God forbid, fishing on this day are regarded as a crime against love and happiness. Women like March 8 are just as demanding. But they do not say what they want, they do not offer anything, they wait. And then they let you know whether they waited or not. And they understand that if they told about their plans or dreams, everything would be easier. But this goes against the ideas of how it should be. A man, if he really loves, he must guess what to do. And for men such an attitude gives rise to anxiety and irritation. How to meet the expectations of the partner, when you do not know what is expected of you? The motive is lost. Since all the gifts are "not the same," what is the point of giving something?
Why not hint? And then sincerely rejoice and wonder how this beloved so correctly and unmistakably guessed the secret desire. Do you think this will be a lie? No, these are just small female tricks and tricks, which, by the way, are very appropriate for the holiday.
Woman - Weekend
The end of workdays for most of us is also associated with the holiday ! And it's not accidental: you can sleep in plenty, lie in bed, have a slow breakfast, and then ... That's where many are waiting for a dirty trick: according to statistics, about 70% of modern women spend the weekend cleaning, buying food, washing and other "home debts". Husband, of course, takes part in economic affairs, but ... In his soul gradually accumulates irritation: but where is the well-deserved rest, where is the joy from the weekend? A special effect woman will be able to breathe joy into ordinary household chores. Cleaning it turns into a cheerful quest, giving the family a "treasure map", buying food in the supermarket - in the "hunt" (junior schoolchildren, for example, are happy to independently find products on the shelves and fill the cart). The main thing is the mood and reward! It can be a hike in an amusement park, a brand-name mother's cake or an evening at a movie theater.
It is unlikely that there will be many men who would marry in order to have a clean house in the house, both in the operating room and a full table. Most appreciate just delicious food and a soulful atmosphere. Therefore, a woman is a hilarious weekend, during which everything is done easily and with a good mood, will always be loved and desired.