The relationship between a man and a woman: sex


Separate, and especially important place in the life of each person is sex. For some, sex is more important than love. Satisfaction of your animal instincts takes precedence over the human mind, eclipsing all facets, stepping over morality and all the limits of decency. For some, sex is a sport, and for some, sex does not mean anything; for such people, love is more important than spiritual need for a certain person. The theme of sex is present in all songs, films, and even books are devoted to sex. Since when did sex become more important to us than love? After all, many people are concerned about the question of whether sex is the main thing in relations ???? The article is devoted to the theme "the relationship between a man and a woman - sex ."

Remember, previously only the innocent could be married, and lose innocence before marriage, was considered a terrible sin, this is still valid, only in the Arab countries, where they still adhere to these traditions. Virginity was an integral part of the traditions, which were adhered to and considered sacred. And the girls, deprived of honor, disgraced the whole city, and not only girls, but the whole family of the girl, she was no longer married, and considered indecent and depraved.

Parents reduced the future married couple, agreeing among themselves about the conditions of marriage. The words and the opinion of the children meant nothing. It was kind of a bargain between parents. And I thought, but was it right? Of course, I understand that these are traditions, and they were not allowed to violate, and those who violated, and went against traditions, became an outcast of society. But after all to start to live with the person all life, not knowing, who he and that in general from itself represents, it was difficult. In our time people, meeting for years, getting married, come to the conclusion that they made a huge mistake. And here people who do not know each other, absolutely strangers, and very young, are obliged to become as much as possible relatives in one day. And on the other hand, you do not need to rush yourself and choose the best, because parents choose the best for us, because they parents and do not wish us ill, their beloved children.

Why am I leading all this? Of course, to sex. It's all about sex, a young couple, formed due to tradition, on the wedding night and understand, though, what could they understand? After all, those days did not know what an orgasm was! So they lived after the first wedding night all their lives, believing that sex should be like this. Some lucky woman understood all the delights of sex, getting her portion of orgasm, and some thought that it was another marriage duty, long, tedious, tiring, and not giving pleasure.

And so, being trapped in one room, it's me, it's about marriage in the blind, it's necessary to somehow live with a man who also happened to be with you probably not of his own free will. Maybe he, like her, liked a completely different person. So they learn to give in to each other, understand each other, and so love is born. It's not for nothing that they say that love at first sight evaporates much more quickly than the love that has been cultivated for many years, nothing will destroy it, even dissatisfaction with sex. After all, for such people, not the pleasure of sex is important, but the pleasure of spiritual intimacy.

And in the modern world, everything is different, if there is no sex before marriage, then after marriage can be very disappointing. All of us, we can say from birth, we know what sex is, because all media flooded the topic of sex. Include MTV or MuzTV, "sex with Tequila", "sex battle", "sex with Anfisa Chekhova," "beach", and even about the movies, I generally can remain silent, because almost all the films contain scenes of sex. Well, then he asks where the little first-grader knows where the children come from! Of course, not Dad and Mom said, but Auntie on MuzTV.

In general, we theoretically start to know everything about sex from the first class. And, of course, our expectations should correspond to reality, which in life practically does not happen. And not justifying our expectations of sex with her beloved husband leads to much disappointment, after which the realization of our expectations on the side begins. Treason, quarrel, resentment, that's before the divorce is near, very close. I believe that you can find a way out for any situation that has developed at the everyday level of living together, but it rarely happens in bed.

Likely, every woman will agree with me that a man in any case gets an orgasm, unlike a woman, because our body is much more complicated than them, and so we do not always have to easily. And men start to change only because they see there is not enough variety, and we are FORCED to change, because we do not get pleasure with it, that is, with the husband. Who is to blame for this situation ?? Are we guilty of the fact that our body is so complicated? And they, you see, lack diversity and new sensations! In my opinion, this is wrong and not fair. And maybe I'm too subjective?

And therefore, I believe that we should know whom we marry, and with whom we will have to divide the pastel, and how much we will enjoy this in the future life. I believe that sex before marriage is the right way to get married successfully, but this does not mean that we should sleep with everyone in order to find out with whom we will be most pleased. And if your daughter has grown up, then you do not need to persistently interfere with her sexual desires, especially if the relationship is serious, just tell us about contraception and how to protect yourself, and what consequences can be if not protected. And you do not have to prove that you need to marry an innocent, it is not.

However, early to start a sexual life is also harmful, but already for health. The genital organs may develop incorrectly, or they may be deformed, and different viruses can be picked up, the most dangerous are AIDS and HIV, which are difficult or not treated at all, depending on the stage of development, and more often these diseases can lead to a fatal outcome , so take care of family and yourself.

And since when do we humans become animals that follow their instincts? By the way, about animals, animals have sex, only for the appearance of offspring, that is, it will be more correct to say, are used for fertilization, and not to satisfy their lust. Only dolphins, chimpanzees and humans - are having sex for the pleasure of all existing beings in the world. But it turns out, in reality, in development people have not far gone from chimpanzees.

It is believed that sex is a manifestation of love, but what about sex with a stranger with whom you just met on a drunken head? Can this be considered a manifestation of love? And yet, all this happens on an animal level, because animals have no morality and decency. Sometimes, even a couple that meets not the first month, you need time to prepare yourself mentally for sex, and here with the first counter. There clearly must be distinguished by the lack of moral principles and principles.

And in conclusion I want to say that for someone sex is important, but for someone not. Sex is a part of the way of our life, have sex, but do not overdo it, because in everything you need to find a golden mean.