There are moments in life that you want to leave in your memory for a long time. There are people with whom it's good never to leave. There are things that make life better. But it happens so, when something has long since come to get rid of, but does not work. Well, at least crack. For completely different reasons. And it is often in these burdening things that the reason for our discontent with life lies. Let's open the cards and voice the advice of psychologists how to properly deal with life's problems. And we'll start working on ourselves.
1. Get rid of the narrow clothes, which you can climb only after a week of hunger strike.
No, of course, you can entertain yourself with hope that someday ... And maybe even that this "someday" will come ... Rasprekrasno! Only do not need to torture yourself in advance, so to speak, in advance. Every day is priceless, so do not struggle with yourself and spoil your mood with what is not yet available. The advice of psychologists: just a couple of sizes more - and what else is needed for happiness ...
2. Drop the fear of showing yourself - in the service, in bed, on the dance floor, etc.
The desire to hide from everyone, to escape, to hide arises periodically in each of us. And this is normal! But hiding constantly is already search. Do not try to be all the time who you really are not. It's stupid and funny. And still your true "I" will sooner or later declare itself. This is where everyone will understand that you have been pretending and conspiring all this time. And together with life's problems, shame, despair and depression will come to you. Be yourself! At least, you will see who really is not indifferent to you, who wishes you happiness, who loves with all your shortcomings.
3. Spit on a job that does not allow you to enjoy life.
Of course, time is difficult now. Work, of course, is needed. But if you think: are we working to live or live to work? What is the point of enduring constant humiliation, stress and other rubbish at work, if it subsequently poisons your whole life? What is the meaning of your life? In this work? .. Do not you think that this is nonsense? ..
4. Forget about cigarettes and lighters.
In principle, it's not just about harm to health. Cigarettes are addiction. That is not free. You are in constant bondage, and this is humiliating. After all, you are essentially free! You want to feel yourself like that? So down with slavery! The Council of Psychologists: Manage your life to the fullest, and do not let these fuming infections control you.
5. Leave in the past dreams of sex with a star.
Yes, it's sometimes nice. At first. And then you wake up, you rub your eyes - and you fall. It seems that it never shines to you, you are unworthy, you are just "one of" ... Well, figs with them, with the stars! Nearby there are many beautiful, smart, talented guys with whom you can do it. And when you find him - your only - dreams of sex with the stars will go to the past forever. At least because at night you will just not be up to sleep.
6. Down with hysterics!
Yes, you are quick-tempered. Yes, it's unpleasant for you or for others. You are simply more emotional than you, probably, most would like. Believe me, this way of solving problems will lead you only to a dead end. Or to the hospital. Even if it seems to you that you are fighting for a just cause, try to be calmer. Hysterics do not attract anyone - they only repel. This is the truth of life.
7. Leave the boyfriends living under the motto: "He gave the word himself, and took it himself."
Do you really think that more are unworthy ?! Or do you think that all the guys are like that? This is not true! Around really enough "real" men. Believe in yourself - and go! To a new relationship, full of mutual understanding, respect and love.
8. Avoid girlfriends, after meeting with whom you grow complexes.
Actually, it's not really a girlfriend ... But, in any case, you do not need such a number near you. Even if they, in fact, have nothing to do with it. Friendship is equality. Find yourself a girlfriend who will not humiliate or annoy you. The search may take time, but the result will not disappoint.
9. Forget, finally, your unsuccessful antics of a year ago.
Well, you screwed up then, but the world did not collapse! And you remain the same. And others already, believe me, have long forgotten about this. Well, if, of course, you do not remind them about it all the time. Stop tormenting and suffering. Let go of the past and go, finally, to the future. Light.
10. Cassette with home porn - in the trash! Even if it seems to you that you can not find out on this video.
Believe me, he will know you! At the most inopportune moment. Have you ever thought about this? Say goodbye to such records immediately! Do not ignore this point! At one point this can ruin your life.
We hope that, thanks to these tips of psychologists how to properly deal with life's problems, you will finally decide to change your life. Just start - it will be easier. You will even be surprised how much easier. And then everything will turn out.