High or low, rich or poor, young or not - he is alone again. His previous marriage was unsuccessful. But maybe, with you, happiness will smile at him? The realities of modern life are such that almost every third marriage, alas, ends in divorce, In this we have its advantages - because the divorced man is again the groom. What is he, what does he want, how to behave with him and what to hope for? Meet - divorced man.
Why did he remain alone?
The reasons, because of which his previous marriage broke up, is a huge amount. We deliberately will not now consider cases when a man left one woman for another. Our conversation about those who found themselves thrown out of divorce, so to speak, in solitary sailing. It is more reasonable not to try to arrange an interrogation with a passion in the first days of acquaintance. There is a high probability of receiving an unreliable response or being rejected for importunity. But do not be afraid that next to you, an inveterate rogue or a loser. His divorce could have occurred due to very prosaic circumstances.
Modern families break up not only because the man is "bad." Around so many so-called self-sufficient women, who at some point realize that they do not need any husband at all, either in bad or in good. In addition, psychologists note the low female adaptability to the partner, his poor understanding, unwillingness to endure the difficulties of living together. There is also such a problem as the sexual incompatibility of the spouses. It may happen that you will find yourself out of the "breed" of other women. His shortcomings will not frighten you, and dignities will seem very remarkable. And you want to create with him something that he did not succeed with another woman.
We'll do without pity
In any case, a divorce is the strongest emotional and mental shock that does not pass without a trace. In some ways, divorce for a man is even more painful than for a woman. Initially, a divorced man wants only one thing: that someone comforted him and said: "Calm down, it will still get better." Of course, it must be pity. But not you! After all, he will not be all the same with sympathy, and soon he will start meeting with anybody, just to not return to an empty apartment and once again make sure that women still find him attractive.
In the women's society, he is necessarily a lot and with all sorts of impressive details will talk about his ex-wife. You get involved in these gossip with "ahami" and "can not be!" there is no need, since all these revelations can completely destroy the newly established relations. Unfortunately, one often hears how a lady of the heart of a divorced man "secretly" tells his girlfriends that "he was such a bitch ...". It is not necessary to be like such talkative people. This will only drop you in the eyes of the chosen one.
Exclusively his problems
Perhaps he has nowhere to live, he has financial difficulties, troubles at work ... Do not rush to regard them as your general, do not put them on your fragile shoulders. After all, in fact, you need him completely for another. Another unpleasant fact from the life of a divorced person. Probably, his health is spoiled. Statistics argue that heart diseases occur in divorced twice, and cirrhosis - seven times more often than in married men. So, psychologists say that it is reasonable to enter into marriage with a divorced man two years after his divorce. Let's hope that during this time he will correct both spiritual and physical health. And even then a man divorced in the past and again married in the present man will try to do everything possible to make his second marriage more successful than the first.
Dangerous types among divorced men
Stuck in childhood
To the "chronic" divorce, a man is inclined, for some reason delayed in emotional development. He permanently, and sometimes forever, remains infantile and dependent in relationships with women. A woman attracts him only until she takes care of him and protects him from the burdens and dangers of adulthood. It is worth this guardianship and protection to decrease, for example, in connection with the birth of a child, as a man begins to be hostile to his wife and eventually provokes her to divorce.
Incorrigible power-hungry
A similar pattern is observed when a powerful man searches for a wife. He chooses, and not the first time, a woman who looks soft, kind. But it is worth it to show even a drop of his will, as such a man begins to feel that she encroaches on his unshakable authority. And he will not tolerate this. In it begins to speak not the discretion of the man, past by unsuccessful experience of past marriages, but stubbornness and stubbornness. He decides to part with this woman. So, again divorce and search submissive.