What can I forgive?

He again did something wrong, something you upset. And now you, like a princess from a cartoon, are at a loss: do not know where to put a comma in the well-known phrase about pardon and what to do: forgive him, not forgive, get upset, educate or tolerate ... And how to understand: where is the line that you can not allow him to step over, but what can I forgive?

Do not be patient.

No, you can, of course, forgive everything until the patience is over. Just remember: swallowing all the grievances and discontent, you risk one day to break and throw everything on your loved one. In the heat, you remember him even that two years ago he stepped on the tail of a kitten, and the kitten walked sad for two days. Few guys in this situation will keep silent - and on this note your relationship will end. Forgiving him everything in the world, you yourself provoke him to curiosity in the style: "What will happen if I do this?" - then do not be surprised that you are wiping your feet. There must be some restrictions. And the best thing is to stipulate them in advance: what exactly can not you forgive? Psychologists say that it is contraindicated in the relationship. Because when one suffers (suffers), the second also has to be not sweet. And why then continue the relationship?

You can forgive:

Not romantic. He does not give you flowers. Do not meet in the limousine after class. Do not pretend to be your girlfriend. And indeed, a compliment from him can not wait. When you are alone, it does not exist more tenderly in your orbit. And when you are on the street, he does not even take your hand. This is absolutely unforgivable, if you need love in order for the rest to become obnoxious. If you like to throw dust in your eyes. Only will it really be? Or that, present, you already have and you can forgive some imperfections?

Lies or something like that. He called you an hour later than promised, said that he would go to the gym, and he was lying around at home in front of the TV. And you think that the guy does not keep his word, that you can not rely on him, and in general such a situation can not be forgiven. Apparently, you are trying to "build" your loved one. Slow down, then you'll be the first to cry and say that you're tired of being a train and pulling on your shoulders.

Terrible relationships can also be forgiven. You always argue with him on trifles, and often the dispute turns into a quarrel, which, it seems to you, you can not forgive. The main thing is to learn from nothing. After all, if he keeps holding your hand all the time, silently caressing your eyes and kissing your feet, most likely, you will get tired of it first.