What flowers to give to the girl

Love: how innocent it is, beautiful, exciting and unpredictable. What to do to a guy or even an adult man, if the subject of his secret sighs seems to exist about his existence and does not guess?

Of course, give her a bouquet of flowers. Only choose them correctly. This is sometimes a real problem for men.

The ABC of flowers.

Of course, the flower variety is so wide that it is not easy to find the perfect bouquet for your beloved. This is a whole science, which is not given to a man at all. This is for the representatives of the fragile sex there will be no difficulties in finding an answer to the question of what flowers to give to the girlfriend, sister, a friend on her birthday. A man in choosing the right bouquet will certainly be lost. And here he will be helped by the trivial truths known to every woman from a young age.

Firstly, to give must necessarily those flowers that the fan liked. If the girl responds to him with sympathy, and he will not fail to accompany the delivery of the bouquet with a short note about why he chose these flowers for her, her reaction will be unequivocally positive. By itself, the act of presenting a bouquet to a girl for herself is a man's recognition that she is for him a fragile beautiful flower, which he is ready to cherish, protect and store from dangers.

Secondly, flowers should express the concrete thoughts of a man, symbolize his sympathy, contain a mysterious hint at the depth of feelings. Therefore, it will not be superfluous before choosing a bouquet for your chosen one, to study the floral symbolism. Moreover, it is quite accessible to modern guys. So, the flowers are divided according to the principle of their color difference and the number of flowers in the bouquet. In terms of the choice of colors should be kept extra care, because their values ​​are known to almost every girl. So, red is a symbol of love and passion, yellow is a hint of a quick separation (it is not relevant if yellow is its favorite color), blue is loyalty and devotion, purple is reconciliation and surrender in a quarrel. Separately, it is worth mentioning the pink: the shades of this color are very diverse, but they all bear one particular feeling - awe. And the closer the pink will be to red, the more love and passion are supposed in this quivering attitude.

Next, the number. One flower is a recognition in the choice of only one. Three - the offer to be together. Five - frank declaration of love. Seven - a perfect birthday present, can be regarded as a hint at the offer of the hand and heart. But if you give a girl a bouquet of 9 flowers, then she will certainly be upset, because this is like offering her to remain friends.

Flowers are for her alone.

Of course, not every girl knows what color a bouquet means. Even fewer contemporary women of the fair sex are aware of how to understand the number of flowers in a bouquet. Therefore, even if the fan is mistaken with the choice of flowers, he does not necessarily have a stormy reaction. But there is a rule, which when choosing flowers for a lover must be observed religiously. Flowers should match her individual style. Ideally, it is better to know in advance what flowers the girl likes. Only not directly from her, of course. Although it all depends on the particular lady: if the person is straightforward and does not like surprises, then a direct question about preferences will be regarded as a positive quality for the fan.

The main thing in this difficult matter is to think about it: about its appearance, its tastes, its character. After all, it happens that the girl is a zealous champion of nature conservation and a torn flower for her is a deliberately killed plant. It is unlikely that she will appreciate a bouquet of 5 scarlet roses or even charming lilies of the valley in a neat cellophane package. If the boyfriend always wants to present such a girl with flowers, then he should stop the choice on pot plants.

The appearance of the girl is also of special importance. Flowers should go to her. It is believed that if the girl is a brunette, then she certainly likes roses, and if the blonde is chrysanthemums. Practice disproves this classification completely. All the girls are different and everyone has their own preferences. And if these fan preferences are not known, then the most correct choice is to give the girl flowers that will be in harmony with her appearance. For example, a scarlet bouquet for a burning brunette. Variegated - for a sunbeam with a red mop. Gently pink, white or lilac - for a touching angel with a light hairstyle. Or exquisite blue flowers for the brown-haired woman.

The price of attention.

Of course, the cost of a bouquet for a beloved girl does not matter if the heart of a fan burns the fire of true love, and its image is so refined that a free field bouquet will only spoil it. However, you should not believe the widespread misconception that a woman estimates the depth of feelings for her men through the price of the flowers given. In fact, if the bouquet is selected really well: goes to her eyes, hair, style of clothes and shades her beauty - then she will be absolutely indifferent to how much money her fan has spent on him.

All the girls are different, unpredictable, illogical (especially when they are in love). And these are their qualities when choosing flowers, they can help a guy very much. On the one hand, of course, there is a risk of not guessing and presenting to the lover of wildflowers refined roses, which she does not like since childhood. But the history of many couples clearly demonstrates that a man in love simply can not be so mistaken: he, as if intuitively, knows which donated flowers today will best complement the image of his lover. She, in turn, accepting a bouquet from someone who is really cute, may well change her opinion about certain plants. Especially if he presents them with explanations, what for him this bouquet means and why he chose such flowers for her.

One of the most common mistakes of guys and even adult men is the desire to shock her at the cost of the bouquet brought. Such a proof of true feelings fragile sex will not be regarded at all as the fans would like. And it's good if you do not get accusations of trying to buy her trust the way even by the most expensive, but unfeeling "broom". A girl in love is an open soul, vulnerable and touchingly naive. One careless word can cause a storm of emotions in her. And the attempt to brag about the money spent on her for her money is for her akin to frank confession in total absence, not just that she likes her, but at least some respect. At least she herself is sure of it.