This question is teased in many families, where the man does not receive financial support and he, with folded hands, lies on the couch for days. And even a finger does not strike a finger, that would change the existing pun in the family, thereby accepting the role of a decent family man, who is able to earn. In such families, the wife is drawn not only by the household, but also, as a rule, works on two three jobs. Thus completely forgetting about yourself. The situation is certainly not at all easy because such a turn of events is far from every woman can. Many simply lose heart, not seeing an exit from this situation. And because of this, family life is shrouded in a veil of constant quarrels and scandals. And is this the part of normal relations? Live in the constant feeling that you are all alone. Do not feel male support and thus spinning like a squirrel in a wheel, squeezing out the last juices completely forgetting that you are a woman. At the same time, all fall asleep and wake up with an obsessive problem about what to do if a man does not have a family? And how long can this continue?
In such an unusual situation, after all, it is worth talking to a man and trying to explain to him in all possible and impossible ways his misunderstanding of family life and financial support for the family. Try to bring as many examples of life as possible, for example, husbands of girlfriends who do not sit at home, but earn. Instruct him that he is the head of the family and depends on him a lot. That you are already simply tired both morally and physically from all this and just want to change the situation, feeling it, support it and custody. But this is for women at any age so it is not unimportant. If he does not heed your pleas and requests, at least somehow change the situation, try to change something by the method of psychological pressure directly on him. Change your attitude by resorting to completely ignoring it. After all, before that he was full and dressed, had money, directly earned by your work and spent it on your needs. Stop this all - bring his funding to a full minimum. He wants a new thing, beer or cigarettes, put the question squarely: "My dear, did you make any money for this?". Sent to the store for "sour cream and bread", demand an account of the spent, withdrawing, while all, all the change, from the purchase. Men, as not cool, it offends and pushes to thinking about its future being. Show him not life, but real raspberries. Of course, if you do not have children, "black clouds of a family state is not so much" have thickened much more, above your head. But, of course, if you have a child and not one, then God himself ordered the lazy husband to change. No children - ask him a question: "What are we going to do if our family replenishes, how are we keeping the child and what to live for?" Already here he obviously does not get away, and do not get away from the answer to the question posed by you.
If he is a full homebody, not a communicative person and does not know how to establish contacts with people, do it all for himself. Look for his work, through ads, ask your friends and as a result bring it under your nose on a "saucer, with a pink border." Turns away from your proposal, no matter how it sounds rude and it was not difficult for you, give him an ultimatum. After all, as is known, who seeks, he always finds. Give him in search of work a certain time after which, inform him that you will take drastic measures and change everything completely. If he loves you and at least a few percent appreciates the family, I think the result will not be long in coming. Just give him a good and hard acceleration with direct acceleration.
But it is worthwhile to be ready for the fact that he simply refuses to compromise. And if you do not want to see him in the role of a housewife, you will have to resort to extreme measures - this is the rupture of your marriage. Because if a man is "deaf and blind," and does not understand the whole complexity of the situation, even for a minute without trying to understand you as a woman, words and further persuasion will simply not be appropriate. Sitting, waiting for a miracle can be for years, and not seeing the result on the face. By the way, it is possible that he will move from the spot, if only, only so that you do not saw it day in and day out and settle for a short time somewhere. And in time, just return to its original position (sofa), arguing that the work he just does not like and she does not allow him to reveal himself as a person. So here you have to do three initial results. Continue to put pressure on him, thereby, shaking his nerves and spoiling his life. In the second case, the entire household, including cooking, should be put on his shoulders. He does not know how - you have a lot of spare time, buy a set of cookbooks and let him learn. Look at time and zagardishsya his cook abilities.
And finally, in the latter case, just find another man. Why do you like this - lazy and lazy. The husband must support the family, and not vice versa. And this is only the name "man" - and nothing more. Just answer the counter question: "Do you know who is the gigolo?". Answered, and now as a conclusion for myself to note that under this designation your blessed one gets. Let it immediately give the right answer to the second question: "What if the man does not have a family?". You just do not have to put up with it and continue to fight like a fish on the ice, trying to provide a family and keep at the same time all the negligent husband.