First: Forgive. Forgive and try to forget. Find him an excuse: you yourself angered him and brought him to assault. He did not want to do this, because now he looks at you with repentant eyes and begs for forgiveness. And you do love him. You can not imagine life without it.
He promises, swears, that this is the last time. You made a decision - to believe in his words and his promise.
Girls, stories that young people raise their hands on a woman, unfortunately, have already firmly entered our life. And, given the experience of other people, you can draw only one conclusion: if your man raised his hand on you, and you immediately forgave him, then be sure that assault will happen again. I'm not kidding. A man is so arranged that, in doing this or that act, he is waiting. Waiting, you forgive him or not. And if you forgive him without a murmur, you untie his hands. And he has an opinion that everything is allowed to him. After all, you love him and will never allow your parting.
As you know, a person is very difficult, even with certainty, you can say absolutely not real, change and re-educate. And even more so an adult man. Therefore, you should not think with your head that with you it will change, you will love it for real and never raise your hand again.
Open your eyes! And accept the truth, though cruel, if he struck once, he will strike in the second. And, when you parted, most likely, the same fate awaits and his new girlfriend.
The second way out and the most correct answer to the question: "what to do if a guy hits you".
As they say in the movie "Ask Cindy" - in this situation you need to "Save yourself"!
What qualities should a man of your dreams have ? I'm sure, you can write a dissertation on this topic. But, most importantly - you need to be confident in a man; he should be for you a defender. You must feel yourself with him, like behind a stone wall.
Is a man who engages in assault can give you what you deserve? A real man should adhere to the rule from childhood: "girls can not be beaten." This is the phrase every parent inspires his son. But, unfortunately, not all boys grow up with such conviction.
Girls, do not engage in masochism, do not cripple your life. Do you really want to spend your entire life with the person who beats you. Think about the future, do your children need a tyrant father?
Remember that the most valuable thing you have is you! And you are at home alone! And, a man who beats his girlfriend, just physically can not cope with his direct duty - to make you happy.
Let's sum up. Your situation: your man raises his hand.
Question to you: what to do if a guy hits you?
Your answer: "run! Run wherever your eyes look, just to get away from him! "
Yes, it is to escape. Today it was just a slap in the face, tomorrow he'll kill you, because in someone else's head you can not climb in and do not know about his intentions. Imagine if you get married, and then what? After all, everyone knows that a man thinks his wife - his property. And with his property, he can do whatever he wants.
When deciding to break this relationship, do not try to regret a man. He, when he struck you, completely regretted you and did not realize that he was hurting you: physical and mental.
A real man is not one who takes up arms, but one that can not take advantage of them. In our case, the arms of a man are his fists.
If you are in this situation, think carefully before making a decision. Your future will depend on your decision.