Why a child is fighting, beating animals

Let's talk about why the child is fighting, beating animals? All this, of course, is based only on the analysis of the child's psyche, therefore, with its description, it is worth starting.

The child grows every day and every day he more and more wants to start how to influence the world.

Here he put a bucket of sand on the other side of the board, and it outweighed it. He threw the stone into the bottle, and it fell to pieces. All this impact on the environment. The child wants to see that he can influence the world, so he does it all. But this is not all animate, and therefore quickly bored, and then he wants to begin to influence not just the stones in the yard, but start to influence the living, animated organisms. No, there is no power of crazy thirst. As a rule, all this takes place on a subconscious level and is not accompanied by thoughts of universal domination. But, nevertheless, this is so.

Thus, this leads the child to the fact that he begins to affect the surrounding physically. That is, the child is fighting and beating animals.

Why does the child fight? If by nature he is bold enough and does not hide behind his mother, then, as a rule, just such people begin to fight. They want to start to feel some kind of influence, and depending on the nature, there are two different types of influence. Some try to do good, share, help. Others start to fight. At first they ask for something in the orderly tone, and then if they do not obey, they start to beat him. If the child is stronger than the one he strikes (and, as a rule, the hand does not rise to the strong, for the instinct of self-preservation has a very strong effect on the mind), so that he will quench his thirst for influence on the world. And if the weak do not, then they begin to switch to those who are completely helpless. That is, on animals. They begin to beat animals, wring their tails, twist their legs, sometimes even trite dragging themselves forcibly. All this is a manifestation of the fact that he has influence on this world, even if it's some kind of dog. Thus, we can conclude that there are two extremes, and from which extreme the child will go, one can understand how well he is brought up. If the atmosphere of good and mutual understanding reigns in the house, then, as a rule, the child will be more calm and balanced, and no matter how we think that the child is small and does not understand anything, all the same, even if he does not understand anything, he absorbs the manner behavior like a sponge.

Also one of the reasons why children start to fight and beat is their unconsciousness in their actions. At first they hit everyone for the sake of experiment, so, check the reaction. If everyone reacts the same way, that is, for example, discontent, then several times enough that the child has learned that it is not worth doing so. If the reaction is always different, then the experiment will be repeated from time to time, and conclusions will not be made.

It is also worth mentioning that sometimes a child fights, not being on the offensive, but on the contrary defending himself. Fights are different, if he defends, protects others and so on. So everything is right, and he can stand up for himself, but, nevertheless, if he solves this problem too often, it is worthwhile to think about and explain to the child that fights are too radical a method and they should be avoided. Thus, we can draw such conclusions.

The first reason why a child is aggressive is that there is some sort of aggression in the child's home. The second, of course, the nature of the child, because it manifests itself from the very first years. And the third, not fully understood the essence of assault and assault as such, which in the end leads to inadequate aggressive behavior.

Now that you understand the essence, you can get down to business. Actually, to how to deal with it, if it has already begun.

As we have already said, it all depends on the parents, so you need to consider everything in more detail: all the methods, situations and behavior of parents in the event that the problem is present.

Fights are different and therefore the first thing you need to know, what was the type of fight. If your child was an attacker, then this is definitely an occasion to engage in his upbringing in this regard, if protected by fists, also an excuse, but in this case everything is not so bad.

The first thing to do is talk to witnesses of the fight. And you need to do this out of the presence of the child, then he will tell you later how everything was according to his version, and this version may differ from how adults see the situation. If he is able to clearly tell about why the fight started, then he is probably right. If it declines and is silent, it means that it understands that it is not right, or does not give them fights, values.

In the event that fights are rare, then parents should not worry, but if this is a habit, then radical measures are necessary. If your child sees everyone as enemies, then we must start looking for good qualities in our peers. In addition, it is worthwhile to send the child to the sports section, where he will let go of anger, for example, on a punching bag.

If the fight has passed before your very eyes, then your reaction should be as thoughtful as possible. It is worth defending your child only after the trial, who is right, and who is to blame. For if you just start to protect, then the child might think that he is special and he can do whatever he wants. But you do not have to scold him immediately, because then he can become closed to his parents and will fight, just waiting for the best moment - when parents are not around.

Therefore, the most important thing for parents is not to meet in a situation until it has grown into something more and yet does not threaten the health of children.

Dangerous objects such as sticks and stones should be taken away from the child. And it is better to discuss the actions in the house. And it is even better to invite him to apologize to the one whom he undeservedly offended. If he really was not right, but does not intend to apologize, then the celebration ends here.

The question of why a child is fighting and beating animals is fairly simple and understandable, but it must be treated with all care.