Since childhood, girls have been brought up on fairy tales about the beautiful, kind and noble princes who wear them from the sky. Every woman wants to find her only one of a fairy tale and live with him all her life. Unfortunately, for many it remains a dream. Beautiful princes are not so perfect, and women are less like princesses. Consider the main reasons for the collapse of families.
- Love is a carrot. The most important point. Are you sure that you joined fates for love? And is it mutual? Only with mutual sincere feelings is possible a long marriage. If you married by mutual benefit, nothing to do, or because "age pushed", then with 90% certainty the marriage will fall apart.
- Everything is like in the army. In our age it became fashionable to subordinate your soul mate to your will. What for? Man is free. Everyone has his own will, desires and views. No one owes nothing to nobody. Relationships built on subordination will not last long. Sooner or later this annoying. If you decide to combine fates, you must know and feel that you are ready to live not only for yourself, but also for your sake.
- Daughters-mothers. Role playing is good, but do not make life a game. Do not look for in your half a caring parent who will tie you to a bib and solve all your problems. Your spouse can be for you an adviser and a reliable friend. We are all adults, do not forget about it.
- The teacher in the circus. This is more true of women. Everyone believes that he is in a position to re-educate a bad boy and that it will be perfect with her. It will not. Both a man and a woman can be taught only one thing - a pot. What has grown, it has grown. If a person wants to change something for yourself, he will do it. In other cases, upbringing will not help.
- Watch not for your loved ones, but for yourself. Jealousy is stupid. First of all it means that you are not sure of yourself. What to do? Work on yourself. Do sports, read books, find yourself an interesting hobby. An interesting person is interesting to everyone. Many new topics will immediately appear for conversation. Working on yourself is a difficult job, but it is very important.
- - "Turn away! I will change my cloth". The topic is not terrible, but annoying. Oppression is stupid for people who have intimate relationships. You have already familiarized yourself with every cell of each other, so why be embarrassed? Do not be afraid to show your body in the light of day. If you are together, then you are satisfied with everything. Such looseness will add spicy moments to the relationship.
- Material values are above all. A man is not a purse, and a woman is not a free cleaner. Again the point where no one owes nothing to anyone. In our modern age, the spouses can themselves discuss the responsibilities of each of them. It has long been believed that the man was the breadwinner of the family, and the woman was the keeper of the home. This is a classic. But not at once it will be so. If people want to be together, they must try and grow for their common good. And act together. You need to feel and see next to a loved one, and not a material good.
- Marriage is a routine. Do not pre-program yourself so pessimistic. You build the relationship together. Only their future depends on people. If you want to live your tale, you will live it.
- And my mother said .. Never listen to the opinions of parents or other public opinion if you are 100% sure of your half. All the taste you will not please. Too many families broke up only because the mother-in-law was jealous of the daughter-in-law, and the son-in-law did not become a millionaire. Everyone must live his life, not someone else's dream.
- Guess which hand. Another problem of our generation. Everyone tries to hint at a certain action with hints and general phrases. Why can not we just say it straight? No one can read your mind. There is nothing to complicate. Something you want? Just tell me.