There are usually several reasons why men are sometimes afraid to show feelings. These include fears, self-doubt and shyness. Below are all of these reasons.
Shyness. Its first manifestations can be seen even in the junior classes, when boys like girls who are excellent pupils with long pigtails, but they lack the determination, in order to approach them or offer to hold to the house. Shyness and shyness are synonyms. And in the event that a man hesitates to be in company with a woman, this can talk about a lot. Most often, the reason is love, this does not indicate a fear of the opposite sex. Although it is possible that when a man looks away or tries to stay at a considerable distance from the interlocutor, they are not guided by light feelings. Maybe it will happen that a woman repels a man with her behavior, or is unpleasant to him as a person. If a woman is the wife of a man who hides a look in her presence, this may mean that he may have some secrets from her, perhaps even treason. However, it is worth considering the situation, when all the above signs mean the love of a man. To look at these visible signs a woman can only if she does not hesitate to be in the company of a man and will pay attention to the study of his gestures and facial expressions.
Fear. At first glance, it may seem that men should not be afraid, because they have considerable power. However, most often it happens that it is the man who is afraid that he will not be able to start and build a harmonious relationship, that his feelings will be unreciprocal, and his love will be left without due attention. In ancient times men were warriors, hunters, they aspired in all to win a victory, including in love. They practically did not face the refusals of those women who could captivate their hearts. The consent of women to male warriors meant victory. In our time, some men sometimes think that women go crazy with just their appearance or gestures. But when he confessed his love, he realizes that he was defeated, and that will remain forever in his memory. Girls are used to the situation when a man refuses, throws, can act meanly and leave. So, perhaps, women are stronger here. But men, unaccustomed to defeats, try to first prepare the "soil" in order to establish relationships, so that the woman reciprocated in recognition of love.
Uncertainty. Not being sure, in the presence of feelings for a certain person, to cope with your thoughts and dare to show initiative - to admit to the first, it is quite difficult. A man doubts the correctness of his actions if he wants to take the first step toward a woman who did not show any sympathy for him and did not make a gesture that could tell that the feelings are mutual. Then, before a man, there is a need to make a difficult choice between sincerity and secrecy. One of the reasons for the refusal of some women from a serious relationship is becoming uncertainty. Sometimes it seems to a man that he has met his ideal and is ready to do everything so that only a woman will pay attention to him. However, he may doubt whether this feeling will pass soon, and whether it will not turn out that he was wasting his time and spent much time and energy to get attention to himself.
Uncertainty appears as the result of negative life experience, the fear of being weaker than a woman and remembering a multitude of cases when women did not reciprocate.
Men hide their feelings, while women are the first to not dare to show their.