So, man's assertiveness is the limit of dreams or a nightmare? In order to understand this situation, you need to understand how much you like it. When a man falls to the heart, his pressure will never be annoying. On the contrary, the girl will rejoice that such a man achieves it. The fact that the guy is assertive, she will see only the pros. After all, now, when around the permissiveness, the guys rarely get someone. And why, because there are many girls who agree to everything.
If the guy is assertive and does not want to retreat, then he really likes you and his feelings are real. In this case, a guy of this type is the real limit of dreams. Next to him, a woman feels like a real princess, for whose sake the knight will go to kill the dragons and look for the firebird. Of course, in the modern world dragons and firebirds have their analogs, but the very fact that a man is ready to do everything for the sake of the girl of his dreams can not but rejoice. But, even when a guy likes, there must be some limit. Too much obsession, too expensive gifts and too much attention, too, begin to bore. The girl ceases to appreciate all this, takes for granted, and sometimes gets angry.
Therefore, ladies love, when men know the limit and at first know how to restrain their feelings, not to impose their presence and respect the wishes of the lady. Modern girls who are already used to the fact that a man can seek attention not for an hour or a day, very much appreciate the ability to properly win a woman. When a guy turns her life into a beautiful dream, she can not not appreciate it. Of course, in the event that a man likes. It was common for our grandmothers to receive flowers and gifts from several fans at the same time, for more than one month. They could choose quietly, almost without paying attention to such signs of attention. And for us, such situations, in most cases, are more like a dream than a reality. Therefore, any normal woman, no doubt, will appreciate this behavior. Most likely, she will even surrender faster than she could, since such guys are rare, and no one wants to lose them. Although, if you have such an admirer, still you should not succumb too early. Think about whether you would have done so if he had not given gifts and courted otherwise.
If you understand that you would not have started to build relationships with him before, if not for his way of courtship, then you are not guided by feelings for him, but admiration for him in a way to achieve. And this is not very good, because you may like not the person himself, but his wide gestures and expensive gifts. In this case, it is necessary to sit down and calmly understand yourself, soberly assessing it and your behavior, as well as your reaction to these or other actions. If you understand that he is fascinated by his imagination, but he himself is practically not interesting to you, it is best to wait or to explain to the young man that his efforts are in vain, so you do not want to take his time and break his heart. But, if you understand that the guy and so you like, and his attitude and behavior only fuels feelings even more, then you can safely succumb to his courtship and start enjoying your relationship, rejoicing that your young man is among those few who still know how be gallant and act so that a woman would like to be next to him.
But, when does the boy's assertiveness turn into a nightmare? Naturally, this happens when a person, simply, does not like it. And that he does not do, as if he ideally did not behave himself, but he still can not change anything, and will only irritate even more. Unfortunately, the guys do not understand this. They believe that they can like the girl if they give gifts, make beautiful gestures and never give up. They do not even imagine that their behavior turns the life of a lady into a nightmare. The girl ceases to feel that she belongs only to herself. She has a feeling that someone is watching her constantly and does not let her relax. She gets tired of constant phone calls and requests for a meeting. If the lady does not pick up the phone, the guy calls without stopping, writing on social networks and looking for a meeting. Honestly, at times this behavior is not only annoying, but also frightening. The girls start to feel that they have contacted a maniac. By the way, at times ladies are right. Therefore, if your obsessive admirer started threatening you or really persecuting you, it's best to report it to people who can protect you: friends or brothers. Let them talk to him and explain that you do not want to have a relationship with this person. And if he does not understand calm speech and arguments, then the use of physical strength will not be superfluous.
Women want to be sought by men, but only those whose attention and society they are pleased. If the guys are not an object of desires for them, but rather a cause for irritation, then the girls really appreciate the ability to understand that "no" means "no" and in time to leave without imposing their attention and presence. That's why an energetic man can be both a dream and a nightmare. And it's good if the guys could understand when and how they become for us, and also retreat before we want to send them too far and too long. A vigorous man, who knows how to make broad gestures and gallantly behave, should also be able to retreat gallantly, and not turn into a cattle that will get what he wants, in any way, and someone else's opinion will not bother him at all.