Sometimes anger and fury can manifest themselves in a seemingly innocuous situation, from which innocent people often suffer. In this situation, they suffer from the guests. As a result, the child has psychosomatic disorders, he may have frequent headaches, nausea and multiple stomach problems.
From all of the above, it becomes obvious that in no case can one suppress anger.
Try to figure out where the rage and rage come from in children.
A family
The child copies his parents' behavior in ninety percent of cases. Attentively after yourself. If the dad does what is rude to everyone who tries to talk to him, the mother after each quarrel beats dishes, the brother and sister like to slam the door after the scandal - be sure the child will do the same. After all, he does not know how else to show his disappointment and indignation.
The influence of public places, such as a shop, a kindergarten, a street
Throughout the time you tried to raise a child a polite and friendly. And suddenly, when you start a wonderful moment, you begin to notice that he calls you bad words, tears up books and throws things around the room. What could have happened? Do not panic. Ask the child to describe what he saw. Disassemble this situation. Try to explain to him who is right and who is to blame. Find with him the correct way out of the situation.
TV and books
With the arrival of the TV in our lives, much has changed. It's very convenient to include children in cartoons, but to do things yourself is more important. Remind me, while you are distracted by your problems, the education of your child is engaged in TV. Therefore, watch out for what programs he looks at. Connect only the children's channels, now it is possible to do it without problems. So he will not see undesirable information. If you do not have such an opportunity - watch the channels independently. If there is no free time - read the reviews of other parents on the Internet.
And do not overdo it with cartoons. It is enough to include a child two-trilumfilm or one series throughout the day. It is better to go for books with a child.
Correct the aggressiveness
Play with your pet in the game. The games that we presented below will help reduce non-verbal and verbal aggression, help to throw out the accumulated anger, relieve tension and teach new patterns of behavior. The number of people for the game - from two or more. You can involve the whole family in the process.
Games for kids for two years
"On the battlefield"
Prepare the necessary weapons for the battle - balls of paper, cotton or foil. The bottom line is this: children start throwing balls at each other. You can hide in any place. After the end of the battle rivals are reconciled.
"Different cats"
Ask the children the question, what they saw cats? Kind, can you be angry any more? Muffling? Offer to play cats. Smysligry: children alternately turn into good, and then into evil cats. Kind-affectionate and purr, evil - fight and bite. Finish the game with the necessary good cats.
Games with three years of growth
"Athletes"
Ask the children about which of the athletes they know? Are the Chemons involved? Take the newspaper or hoop and put it on the floor. The child should enter into a circle and begin to portray an athlete, for example, a boxer, while working with his hands. The spectators sitting around begin to cheer up the activist. Good support will help to splash all negative emotions.
Then the child can portray a karate, a jumper and so on. You can offer an athlete a choice. The only rule is not to leave the circle.
"Positive Obzylki"
Talk with the children about how many words exist that can offend a loved one. Think about it in order to come up with innocuous calls, for example, potatoes, gnomes, radishes. Let the gathered children offend each other in turn.
If aggression began to appear, immediately finish the game. After that, all participants call each other with the same words, only the suffix-affection suffix is a sweet radish, you are my beloved potato and the like. Ask the children what words it is more pleasant for them to hear.
Games with four years of growth
«The Magic Tangle»
Give the raging baby magical yarn. Get it out of a shiny box or treasure chest. Explain to your child that he will begin to calm down and calmly solve problems, gradually pulling the threads together. The ball will grow larger, and the child is all kinder.
"Pillow of anger"
Bring the child a pillow. Say that it is magic. The next time he wants to throw out aggression on close people, let him go to his room and knock out the dust from the pillow. Instead of a pillow, a child can present a boxing pear.
Games from five years of age
"Wranglers"
Let the children play a verbal skirmish. One will speak for, the other against. The duel should start quietly, gradually expanding. You should finish the game when there is no power left to scream. After that, the children calm down and translate the spirit. Pay attention to how pleasant it is to enjoy silence.
"Gnomes"
Draw three dwarfs on a piece of paper and cut them out. Color their hats in different colors on their own. After that, children must complete several commands. Say that the red dwarfs are shouting and making noise. Children should repeat the same thing.
Say that the dwarfs in yellow hats speak in whispers. Children say in a whisper.
Gnomes in blue hats were silent. Everyone is silent.
The game should be repeated several times and stay on sinigonomiki.
Pleasant music. You can calm the child with the help of calm music. Go to the store with him and buy the disk you like.