In order not to make mistakes, it is enough to know what irritates men most.
Darling, do not you think I ...?
No, it does not seem to him that you are fat, fat, he may not even notice your little pimple. So do not remind your shortcomings once again. If a man has not yet escaped, he does not make any claims about your appearance, so everything suits him. If you constantly tell him that you have gained a couple of extra pounds, you have aged, you look worse, he thinks about it and looks more attentively, but only looks at you with your eyes. There is a big risk that in the end you will be able to convince him that something is wrong with you.
Do not be dismissed!
When the relationship is just beginning, the girls go for anything to please their man. They are ready to sleep on curlers, daily go to the gym and solarium, do hair removal even when it is not required. But some time passes, the passions subside, the girl realizes that the man is caught and calmed down. So imperceptibly grows tummy, manicure and hairstyle are postponed until the next holiday, allergy occurs on the epilation, but there is an unexpected passion for baggy sweaters and shapeless trousers.
A man falls in love with one girl, but gets a completely different one, which he does not want at all. Do you have to spend time with the new one?
Keep the mind in check.
Men are contradictory creatures, even more contradictory than women. Do not be smart, but do not be stupid - that's what men want. It would seem that one mutually exclusive of the other, but this is not entirely true. The fact is that the concepts of what an intelligent person is and how it manifests itself, you can be completely different. If you begin to "load" it with an endless stream of information that seems to him frankly boring and superfluous, there will be little good.
In this case, a rare man would like to see a frank little fool around himself. He wants to talk to you at least sometimes, and if you are not able to support a single conversation, then your relationship will be doomed. In order to be interesting to him, it is not necessary to study the device of the car and watch all football matches, just sometimes be interested in what interests him. Or just read the men's magazines, where there are words.
Do not touch the holy!
Saints can be anything: football, disks, computer, favorite T-shirt. Do not touch these things without permission, do not try to switch channels during an important match and do not try to put things in order where you think it is not. For example, in the files on the desktop. This will inevitably provoke a quarrel and will only ruin your relationship.
Be silent!
Do not tell your friends, mother or colleagues about your relationship. He is terribly angry. Do not discuss your intimate life with his friends and his mom, he will like it no more. Do not give out other people's secrets-men are usually very sensitive to the question of preserving other people's secrets. And in general, talk a little less.
Do not be an amoeba!
A man does not like girls who do not have their own opinion. Of course, it's nice when a girl looks at a man as the only source of wisdom, but do not go to extremes and can not decide anything by herself. A man becomes unclear how she lived before him, if not able to choose what to wear, where to go, what to say and what to dream about. Do not blame him for being bored, then a man can buy you a collection of anecdotes and retire to a bright future in proud solitude.
Do not call him for a walk, if you have no idea where you would like to go. In general, be extremely specific in your desires and do not be afraid to take responsibility for at least some of the things.
Do not be cold!
Men are living people, so it's not surprising that they like the same lively and cheerful girls. If you are always sad for no reason, often crying in the pillow, refusing sex, or in bed thinking frictions, for a long time with you not a single man will stay with you.
Of course, you can endlessly list what you need and what you do not need to do with a man. The whole secret is that there is only one really good advice: behave with him the way you would like it to behave with you. And only then you will get a result that you both like.