It happens that you seem to be friends with a guy, but only everyone around you looks at you in a strange way, and some of them ask: "Do you love him?". And no matter how much you deny it, they still do not believe it. So maybe people from the outside can see better, and your friend has become a lover long ago, only you yourself do not want to notice it.
Flirting
With real friends, girls never flirt. They do not see the point in this and they do not have a desire to do this even subconsciously. But if you often catch on throwing friendly phrases, smile languidly, as if for fun and so on, you should think about who you really feel. Just do not start to persuade yourself and justify yourself that you behave this way with everyone. In fact, the line between friendship and love is always felt. Even if you like to cuddle with all your friends, a person who is not indifferent to you as a man, you will press differently and hold on to his arms longer than in someone else's. Also, you will be disliked when he begins to be embarrassed, listening to your ambiguous jokes, and even more so if he answers in the same spirit. And yet, being in love with a person, the girl will never forget "to build his eyes." She even herself can not notice this, but if someone from around you talks about it, and more than once, then it is worth thinking about what you do and what you feel.
A wish
If we look at our friends, then we assess their impassivity. That is, we can say that a friend has a good figure, beautiful hair, we can even say that he is the best and likable guy in the world. But this assessment will be the same as the evaluation of our girlfriends. But when you say that your friend has a beautiful body and you begin to have a desire to touch him, caress him and so on, then it's worth seriously thinking about your feelings. Women always fantasize about the men they like. If the guy is not attractive to a sexual object, then a woman will never think about his touch, body and so on. It is simply not interesting for her, otherwise it is unfavorable. But when sexual fantasies start to swirl in your head, you do not have to justify the beauty of a young man and so on. Believe me, even if it's an onetal of beauty, if this guy did not cause you exactly love emotions, you would never have thought of him like that. Admiration of man's beauty and desire is a completely different thing. Therefore, one should never be afraid of one's desires. It is better to recognize them and weigh everything to decide what to do next than to constantly deny everything, and then one day break and feel guilty before a man whom you have always called your friend. Remember that feeling can distract you from someone with whom you might be able to become a great pair.
Jealousy
Another direct indicator of love is the age-oldness. And jealousy is not friendly, when a person is simply angry that a friend has stopped paying him enough attention. No, it's completely different from the beginning and it only occurs when a woman finds out about the close-in of a guy with other women. She herself can not explain why, but inside her begins to tear anger and resentment. She justifies such feelings by the fact that that other girl is unworthy of her friend, that she is behaving incorrectly, that she is not really jealous, but she is just joking. But in fact everything is completely wrong. The girl begins to playfully humble the young man in that he is a traitor for only one reason-she really thinks so. And it really hurts even to see him with a second, not to mention something more. At such moments she thinks that this guy belongs only to her and he can not show a feeling of sympathy for someone else. Often, girls justify this sense of ownership of friends, but forget to remind themselves that such emotions they vykonikayut something only to one friend and only in those moments when he is with a girl. If you notice this behavior for yourself, then, Your feelings for this young man are not as friendly as you want to think. This is nothing less than falling in love. And the women around him you react tacostro just because you want in the depths of his soul that he belonged only to you, so that he will caress your hand so tenderly that you smile and spend time with you.
Signs of attention and attitude towards them
Another way to determine your attitude to a person is to analyze your behavior and your emotions while he shows kvm some signs of attention, or vice versa, he does not. In this case, we are talking about gifts and other small things that girls like to get. For example, if on your birthday a friend buys red roses, which you once mentioned in conversation and the books you dreamed about, despite the fact that he hates reading and hiking through bookstores, how do you feel? If this feeling of ordinary human gratitude, then everything is fine with you and it is really a friend. But if you understand that you are in rapture and admiration, that you literally want to cry for joy, then there is something non-existent. Often, such a delight and trembling feel exactly when the person we love performs all the wishes, and we do not even ask for them. But even more noticeable are our real feelings in those situations where a person on the contrary does not do what we expected. For example, when you as always waited for a friend, hoping for a close dialogue, instead of it he did not pay attention to you and closed in another room with a blue woman. If you feel at such a moment that you do not feel unbearably sick at the beginning, even when there is fun around, if you remember that you are accustomed to constant attention from him, to the fact that he was sitting with you, joking with you, watching only on you, and now this is not, then your feelings are much more than friendly. Think about it and open your friend until it's too late. After all, perhaps he has long and sincerely loved you, perhaps even you yourself know this, but somehow decided that he was only a friend. In this situation, you can not go in cycles with the rules that you yourself have come up with, open your heart and you will surely feel happy.