In no case, do not refuse to meet. For a young man, this can be very important. It is important that you get along and like each other. Tell him that his support is very important to you, after all, you do not get to know "moms" every day. Leave criticism and discussion of the shortcomings of your face or figure for another time. Doing it on the way to a meeting with his mother is a bad idea.
Prepare yourself.
Visit the beauty salon and put yourself in order: make a new haircut, dye your hair, make a face mask or any other cosmetic procedures that will help you look 100%!
Choose a strict, but modern dress or suit. The main thing is for you to be comfortable in it, and you feel confident. Do not wear a lot of jewelry or jewelry - it's a bad tone.
Ask in advance from your young man what you can not talk to his mom or parents. At the meeting, behave naturally. Do not say much, do not smile just like that, and do not build yourself a "nun." Communicate the way you communicate with your parents, your older sister. Do not use "youth slang" and all sorts of words that you communicate in Odnoklassniki or VKontakte.
If you go to visit a guy, do not pounce on him with kisses when meeting. Easy touching the cheek will be enough. Suddenly his mother - strict rules?
A meeting.
Perhaps the most optimal scenario for the first meeting with the young man's mom will be a conversation about your boy's childhood. All mothers love to talk about the childhood of their sons and daughters. Show family albums or videos. You, too, can tell a little about your childhood and funny stories that have happened to you. Tell us about your hobby or work, study.
Mom's all different. Because of the great love for his son and the absolute certainty that no girl in the world is worthy to be with her child, many of them arrange a real interrogation.
If your conversation takes an unpleasant turn for you, try to change the subject. In any case, do not be rude and do not snap. This, at least, is indecent. In the worst case, you will not like your mom's mother.
Be sure to make a complement to the parents or the mother of a young man about how cozy and cute in their house. Try to ask how to take care of plants or cook such a wonderful pie. If there are pets, you can ask his breed, habits. In a word, try to translate the conversation into an interesting channel for the mother of the guy. So you show yourself as a sweet and intelligent girl.
Far-reaching plans.
The first meeting with the young man's family was left behind. You had a wonderful evening, talking on a variety of topics, do you feel that you made a good impression? Well, now it's worth thinking about your plans for your boyfriend. If you really see you together for a long period of time, or more, think about marriage, then it's worth continuing to maintain a relationship with his mother.
Show her that you are a good housewife and you can take care of her son. Give her the cake baked with your hands. Or a knitted scarf. If you went to their dacha together, offer your help in cooking dinner or wash the dishes.
Politeness is the main weapon of kings, and yours too. Always say "thank you", "good afternoon", "please pass". If you ask your opinion about the house, about the garden, pickled cucumbers, sunset hands of my mother, everyone should be praised. However, all the time "podlizyvatsya" is not worth it. If you have the completely opposite opinion, express it, only gently. Let the future mother-in-law know that you have your own view of things.
About your young man speak only good. Your internal disagreements are not for the ears of his mother, father, brother, sister. Do not show "host" behavior towards the guy. Everyone and so perfectly understand that you are together.
Regardless of the outcome of the meeting with the guy's mom, know that you meet, not you and his parents. It was he who chose you, and his desires should be respected by his parents.