There are no such children who would not do something "out of the ordinary". Children do not obey, they indulge, they play tricks and you can not get away from it. Naughty child takes away a lot of strength from his mother, because he needs to constantly look, watch, so that he once again did not act out of tune and did something stupid.
How to calm a naughty child?
Know that any child has a reason for this behavior. To achieve the desired result you will not be helped by the passage of a "belt on the pope", slapping, swearing. Having a naughty child you need to eliminate the cause of child disobedience.
Effective ways how to calm the child?
- Remind of an important matter to put off the crying: "You'll cry again next time, soon the sun will set and we just will not have time to walk." You do not take away the right of the child to tears, just ask for a little wait, and as a rule, children agree to this assignment and calm down.
- Ask a naughty child to cry in a low voice (not to wake up the dad or cry in a low voice, because you have a headache). If he obeys you, you will not get a real crying and the crying will quickly stop.
- You can not miss the bad mood, which will pass by itself. But you can easily make a mistake, show indifference where you need to be involved and caring. Help the child to calm down. And you ask him: "Let's go outside and see if there are leaves on the birch tree?"
- Hurry up the kid with a quick "quick-quick", he will not have time to come up with no objection. It works only with the kids. Children who are older will agree on what's what.
- You can reassure a naughty child with plots. The essence of this method is to talk all the time, to say that it requires a lot of energy. The kid, who was going to cry, will forget about crying and not wanting to dress for a few seconds will die. It is almost impossible to sustain such a long talkload. It is better to say something developing, useful and intelligent, and not grind nonsense.
- You can distract the baby with the words: "You have a cilium on your eye, it prevents you from crying, let me pull it out."
- You can not distract a grown-up and grown-up child by a bird, but you need some kind of surprise. A child who is on the verge of hysterics, you can say: "And who rustles in the kitchen, maybe it's a hedgehog or a mouse, you need to look." You need to come first in the kitchen and leave a cork hedgehog or cardboard mouse on the table.
- Sometimes, to make the occasion for crying disappear, you need to voice the child, what he feels. I need to tell him that you know why you did not go for a walk. Then the kid will understand that you are not indifferent to his misfortune.
- You can offer your child an object to throw away negative emotions. It can be a ball, a tablet, a hammer or a cushion, they will help to find an outlet for negative energy.
- Try to apply a ridiculous ritual. As soon as the naughty child is going to cry, turn on the vacuum cleaner to clean the child from vagaries or a hair dryer to dry the child's tears. But if a child is afraid of how these household appliances sound, it is not worth using this ritual.
- You can react to a dissatisfied and capricious mug: "Some terrible monster has come. Go away, monster, when will the glorious baby return? "But you can expect that the child can react differently to these words.
- It happens hard enough to hug, kiss a child, say that you love him, such a naughty, whining with a tear-stained face. Only the kindness of the heart, the warmth of the gaze can quickly and reliably dry children's tears.
- With a little practice using these methods, you will feel which is better to apply the method. Remember that if you cry from how you act today, your child will take part, feel sorry, help or pass by.
It must be remembered that with the child you need to find mutual understanding and explain why his actions are bad. Only by reaching the goals, you can achieve that the naughty child began to be corrected. It's not easy, but possible.