Do not blame for tears.
Do not tell the frustrated little son: "Boys do not cry." Moreover, this is not true: little boys from birth cry more than girls. This is explained by the fact that compared to the girl's nervous system, the young gentlemen are less mature. That's why they sleep less, cry out louder, they are more difficult to calm. If you want to drain your son's tears, some gentle words are not enough (although for girls this method of calm, as a rule, works without fail). You should use his interest in the world around him: turn on and turn off the light several times, show the bird outside the window, or a new toy. Do not scold an older kid for crying. A child, regardless of gender, has the right to feelings and emotions (both positive and negative).
Do not limit freedom.
When you see that your son is bursting with an overabundance of energy, let him run, jump, frolic. Usually boys are much faster than girls and it is vital for them to throw out energy. Therefore, do not try to restrict the freedom of the baby, leaving him in an arena or forcing him to walk in a stroller for a walk. Physical games will benefit both the physical and mental health of the child.
Let me experiment.
Men at any age are interested in the arrangement of things that surround them. And I like everything that is connected with technology. Of course, at an early age the theory is not interesting to them - they learn the structure of things in practice, analyzing and breaking them. So do not be upset and do not yell at your little son because of another broken toy or equipment. It is better to remove all valuable objects and fields of view and reach of the baby, and make his experiments safe.
Do not limit the interests of the child only because it seems to you that they are not suitable for the boy. Believe me, there is nothing wrong with the fact that the son wants to drive a teddy bear in a wheelchair or play with a doll. Do not worry, if a boy likes girls' games. The main thing is that the game brings the kid joy and brings pleasure.
Be attentive.
It seems to you that the raging kid does a hundred things at once and can not concentrate on anything. Do not hurry to interfere with his game. Just try to keep him always in your field of vision. Make an apartment as comfortable as possible for crumbs and from the earliest age teach it to the basics of safety: you can not run away from your mother on the street, climb yourself on the table, jump from the chair. Boys, even more than girls, need clear rules of conduct.
Give your son more time.
All the kids are very attached to their mother, but the boys are more acute than the young ladies, they even experience a short separation from their mother. Therefore, if possible, organize your life so that the first three years the son spent at home with you, the pope or another close person. This will help the baby feel safe. If you give it too early in the garden, it can survive a great deal of stress, feel abandoned. Try to make the adaptation to the kindergarten as soft and gradual as possible.
Do not treat him like a prince.
Already at the age of two, begin to train your son to take your toys off before bed (do it all together first). When the baby grows up a little, let him help you in simple household chores, even if from this there will be more confusion than good. Thanks to this, he will understand that domestic affairs are not exclusively "women's business". Explain to a little man how he treats girls. That they can not be offended, it is necessary to love and care for them. And older people need to obey and respect. Teach the boy the necessary rules of etiquette.
Talk, read, sing.
As a rule, boys later start talking, they have less lexical vocabulary than girls. Therefore, talk as much as possible with your son, tell what is going on around you, read poems, fairy tales and stories, sing children's songs. This will enrich the baby's vocabulary, and also help him to quickly learn the basics of speech.
Release him on time.
Up to six years your little son will be very attached to you, but then the pope will come out on top, which will become your undisputed authority for your little man. While this may seem like a distant event from the future, you need to prepare for it morally now. This separation from the mother is a necessary stage in the development of the boy.
Try not to miss anything in the education of your little man, so that later when he grows up, you should not be ashamed of his behavior. And that his beloved woman, once told you "thank you."