There are people who are not at all interested in the personal life of others. But, such a minority. For the most part we always want to know what's new, what happened to whom, who broke up, who married and so on. Such interest can be both moderate and turned into an obsession. And if you understand that you want to know absolutely everything and about everyone, then you need to understand what is the cause of this interest. Perhaps you will not like the answers, but if you want to understand yourself, then you are ready for any truth, even bitter.
Gossiping
Perhaps you want to know everything and everyone so that you can have an opportunity to discuss the personal life of other people. The desire for dissolving gossip is an indicator of inner complexes and envy. If you always rush to tell everyone around about any event that has occurred in the life of some person, most likely, you want to condemn him with a group of people or prove to yourself and them that in your life everything is not all so bad. Think about why you want to tell us that Mrs. Tresstalas with the guy, and Mr. P dropped the girl for unknown reasons? If you tell people like that, while showing sympathy, this still does not mean that you really want to help and regret. A person can share information with someone in order to get advice, not to talk about everything to everyone he meets. Therefore, noticing for yourself the desire to constantly tell everyone around you stories from the personal life of friends and acquaintances, think about what is eating you personally. Why do you want someone to learn about the misfortunes of others? If you answer this question, you can understand, because of what complexes you so want to know everything and about everyone.
Everyone who dissolves gossip, often almost nothing says about themselves. And in this there is an explanation of their behavior. Such a person most often does not experience the best of times or his life is generally boring and unhappy. But he does not want to fall by the advantage of "in the dirt face", that's why he constantly collects new information so that people, getting and comprehending it, do not have time to be interested in his personal life. So, if all of the above describes you, then try not to pay attention to what people say and do around and concentrate on their own problems. Thus, you simply force yourself not to notice. And this behavior is absolutely wrong and you personally exacerbate your life. So, when you once again want to tell someone how he screwed up at work or quarreled with your loved one, think about whether your own workplace suits yours and whether you feel yourself at a loss of heart in a conversation with your loved one. After a thorough analysis of your personal problems, you must definitely take up their decision. Believe me, if you want to establish your personal life, then you simply will not have time to get information about others and distribute it.
Lack of personal life
Another reason why people are constantly interested in the life of others is the lack of their own. A person is so boringly inaccessible that he, in fact, begins to try to live the lives of loved ones, friends of the relatives. Each event in their lives, he perceives as his own. Naturally, he always wants to know everything and about everyone. Otherwise, such a person will simply have nothing to occupy. In such situations, people rarely dissolve gossip, because they are talking about themselves. But nevertheless, such a person can calmly share certain information, not asking who happened to whom this or that event, because subconsciously, he believes that this event was happening to him, which means that we can talk about what happened to the Stemi, who he considers necessary to inform the information. If you understand that you want to know everything precisely for this reason, then you need to analyze your life and your behavior. You can not allow that it becomes so boring that there is a desire to live other people's lives.
Everyone has certain interests and talents. But not everyone guesses about them. Therefore, you need to try to expand the circle of acquaintances and interests. The interest in the life of loved ones is a normal feeling, because we want everything to be good with those we love. But when this interest becomes painful there is a desire not just to know, but to change something in other people's lives, because it seems as if it would be better - it's time to sound the alarm. You should never enjoy the feeling that you are one with someone. This not normal. People can support each other's friends, understand, even think, but everyone must remain individual and have the right to make decisions independently. Every life belongs only to its master, to whom it was given at birth. Therefore, one should not try to live someone else's, giving up his own. To know everything and about everyone means to live in a small gray world, like a basement room without furniture, in which it is so cold and uncomfortable that you always want to escape. So, instead of walking through the streets and peering into other people's windows, try to arrange your life in such a way that you feel warm, comfortable and comfortable in it if you really can do it, then you will not want to know everything about everyone.
Fears
Another reason why we want to know everything, is a banal fear. We are afraid that people said something about us behind our backs. We are afraid that they will not love us as much as we do them. We are experiencing that we are familiar with the way we are, do not accept us as we are, and somewhere about this talk. We think that the most relatives do not tell us everything, because they do not trust us and it makes us hurt. That's why we begin to try to find out everything and about all, in order to simply eradicate our fears to stop worrying because of the attitude of people towards our person. This behavior, as well as all the actions that we talked about before, is based on our complexes. In this case, we constantly feel incomplete, unworthy of love and respect. That's why we are afraid. In no case should you indulge in such feelings and go on about paranoia. If you are a good man and act fairly in relation to others, then you have nothing to fear. Every person has the right to his personal secrets, so the fact that someone does not tell you something, does not mean that he does not love you at all . Well, if you yourself feel that you are doing wrong to your relatives, then to try to find out what they say to you, it's better to try to change and not give them reason to negate your person.