Sharing a man with someone else not every woman will like this idea. Someone became for him in the first place, and you moved on to the second, or just remain a habit. This is the worst option. To do this, it is necessary to understand why he found another woman and what it is for him.
Perhaps your man is one of those loving, who accumulate a huge amount of unspent love, affection that you want to give someone. And the problem here is not that you here are not very receptive to all of his caresses and feelings, and the problem is that you can not accept everything. You are like a full pitcher, in which more water can not be added. In this situation, a man is looking for another pitcher who wants to fill his love, care. It can be noticeable that a man has found one more, slightly pressing on him, he admits to having another, what to do? It is worth thinking about whether you need your partner. If you realize your need for it, then try to slightly empty your jug of feelings, in order to get fresh fresh, tasty water. Show more care to the man, and in any case do not roll up hysterics. Just show that you love him more than anyone and only he is worthy of you, that only you can live only under his wing of care and love. If a man realizes that he needs you, then other women will simply disappear from his life as quickly and easily as they entered it.
And what if, under pressure, a man admits to having another, what to do, if this is your fault? Immediately ask yourself the question of what you were guilty of, why it's your fault, and not he's such a scoundrel. The answer is simple. A man is the same child, the same dog that needs to be given enough attention. If you always please him, spoil, give enough time, love and affection, he will never leave for another, the one that can potentially replace you. Again, it is necessary to show - whose man, to whom he is needed and who belongs. If you clearly understand that you need it as air, then do not roll up the tantrum. Be smart and just fight for him, return him not only forcibly into the family, but do so that he wants it himself, or, at least, thought it was his choice.
Realize what your advantage is, after all, for some reason his choice has stopped at you. Think about what you hooked it and could keep near you, maybe you were too cheerful, smiling, energetic, and now just lost shape. Use these qualities as your advantage in order to regain the heart of your man. And in addition to this, of course, give him more time and attention. Remember how you won it, how it won you and forward to capture. Write him messages that you miss him, right during the working day and all this routine red tape, call, ask how he is doing at work, prepare breakfast, see to work, even if you want to sleep a couple more hours, arrange unexpected, but pleasant surprises. Men like little children are being led to everything tasty, bright and interesting. Engage him, draw attention, show that he will not be anywhere in the world as good and comfortable as he is near you. You yourself will not notice how this will diversify your life together, make it interesting, return the man, and will also strengthen your relationship.
If a man confesses that he has another, but also under pressure, think about whether you can have something further with him. Rolling hysterics, quarrels here will not help, only one correct decision is to find out the reason for such an act and choice. If he is a reveler, then there is nothing to be done about it. Do not lock his house at the castle, do not tie him to a chair, so he does not run away in search of adventure. We'll have to either take it, or say goodbye to it, no matter how hard it is. And if you simply do not already hold your man, they are tired of the order, or he found the one that he always looked for and did not see it in you. Then do not press him, persuade him not to persuade the future with him you can not see. No, of course, you can try to return it, seem better, understand what kind of woman he needs and become like that. But it will be a game, and you can not play this role all your life, just to keep him close. At some point, a turning point will occur, and then you will not be able to do anything, you have to put up with the consequences. On someone else's misfortune, one's happiness can never be built. So maybe it's better not to torment yourself, and to measure yourself now, in order to go further and find your true happiness?
And, if under pressure a man admits to having another - what to do to us, deceived? That's right, put up with the situation and let go. The main thing is not to fall into depression, they have not helped anyone, but only aggravated the situation. Make this situation not sad for you, but on the contrary happy, new. After all, before you open up new unconquered horizons. Now you have a new hour. You can finally realize yourself if you have not had it before. You are now free and can do something else, try something new. The whole world is open to you. Know, you are worthy of the best and the best is waiting for you ahead, and a man who does not love you and does not appreciate you, so he did not fight for you and so easily refused. But after all, not all such, your defender and the king somewhere very close. Arrange for yourself specific changes, change the style, image, circle of communication, places of rest, sign up for some training, courses will also help a new hobby, or maybe read a new book to which the hands did not reach. In general, one must learn how to love oneself, then this love will attract a new love to you. Therefore, what is not done in life, everything is done only for the benefit of our future.