Strength of will
• Exposure - a feature that allows you to suspend spontaneously arising feelings, thoughts, so as not to aggravate the difficult situation, to prevent bad consequences;
• determination - the ability to make quick, informed and firm decisions in life.
Step forward
To develop these qualities in themselves is a very real task, the main thing is to want and start to act properly. How? It's simple!
1 step. Towards initiative is communication. Without it in any way. Only by learning to communicate with people, skilfully supporting the conversation, correctly asking questions and listening, you will eventually feel the strength to show initiative. You will learn to feel other people: you will know what they want, what they want. How to do it? For example, in all theatrical universities, student actors are trying to teach how to be proactive and communicative. And this is done by the only way: the group is taken to the street and set before them a task - for example, to go get acquainted with a stranger, ask him for advice or kiss on the cheek. Try and you. At first it will be difficult, but eventually you will gain inner freedom - the initiative will become for you an obvious quality.
2 step. Learn to take responsibility for their actions. Of course, this is one of the most difficult stages. After all, we are all children in the shower, and we really want mom, dad, grandmother, brother, and then husband, boss, loved everyone to decide for us. Try to stop yourself in time and not shift to the nearest worries, which you can and will solve by yourself. You are not an ostrich, which hides its head in the sand at the first danger.
Humility of the people
For our Slavic mentality it is especially difficult to take the initiative into our own hands. There are many reasons for this situation. First, our Christian religion teaches us to take all the joys and failures in life as a reality and with humility. Secondly, the peoples of Eastern Europe are distinguished by their love for stability and monotony. Hence it emerges that according to the requirements of the modern world, it is necessary to break the stereotypes that have been laid down in us for centuries.
3 step. Learn to act. And the main stage, when already on an emotional level you are ready for movement, but in reality there are ideas, supporters and supporters, and you just have to move from intention to action. Often you are overawed by fear. After all, all the new scares, and there is no guarantee that your initiative will be supported, that the ingenious plan will not fail. It is necessary to clearly present the purpose and the motive. Initiative in a relationship, whether amorous or friendly, always causes a lot of controversy. Who should take the first step in reconciliation after a quarrel - a man or a woman? Psychologists argue that women's initiative should sell to act - and this is a normal reaction of any adequate person. The choice is really always yours. It is important to remember that in any adventure you need to do, no matter how trite it sounds, the first step.
A fine line
Initiative - a piece punishable. The person who takes responsibility, takes the first step to meet, does often get on the head ... This must be ready. As a rule, the initiative is divided into such types. At work - is the implementation of their creative plans, goals and ideas. Creativity, autonomy, enthusiasm-three whales that will help not only realize your idea, but also promote it, gather a team of companions around. You should have a clearly defined goal and motive, self-confidence and the need for your ideas and plans, readiness for various unforeseen factors. Feel free to express your ideas, assumptions, doubts, so you can manifest yourself as a person. Men are pleased to realize that there is a person who will always support them and wait. Remember, a man is interested in the woman who is interested in him. But the initiative of the stronger sex is perceived as in the order of things, because they must be persistent and stubborn, go straight to their goal, especially if it concerns the heart of a woman. But in life everything is not as smooth as you want. And men are the same people as women, and are also subject to doubts and complexes. Therefore, if you want to provoke your chosen one to do something, then help him develop qualities that will open up the desire for action in time. To wait that someone will come and change your life abruptly - it's funny, it happens only in fairy tales, in fact, sooner or later you will have to make decisions and take responsibility for yourself. So dare! Just do not overdo it, or the nickname "annoying fly" is unlikely to please you.
Creative growth
It's about creativity. So popular nowadays quality demands from us a modern world around. How to develop it?
Cubby
• A quiet corner where you can create or calmly think over your idea. Brilliant thoughts to all great people came exactly in a place where they felt most comfortable. For example, the great Descartes made his discoveries lying in bed, and Edison even slept in the laboratory to immediately approbate all the ideas that came to mind. Hemingway liked to work on his works in the Paris Cafe "Lilac Farm". Than you are worse ?!
Horizon
• We expand it - the more we know, read, visit various exhibitions, performances, we go abroad, we are looking for interesting and new acquaintances, the more likely that interesting and creative ideas will come to our minds.
Hobby
• One of the easiest ways to develop the inner potential for creation. Let the results be non-genial, but you showed the initiative.