Men's sexuality, as well as women's, is the subject of a large number of significant scientific works, but a person far from science studying sexuality of man, as well as scientists, is not uninterested in this issue. In order to see the general need to know the differences and in this article intriguing aspects of the conditioning differences between male and female sexuality are given quite a lot.
A healthy male representative, as a rule, almost always has a desire for sexual intercourse, while in a woman it manifests itself in the presence of sexual stimulation. But sexual stimulation in women is not limited to simple, animal, physiological effects. Some women are especially affected by smells, other affectionate and tender words, third clever words and intelligent thoughts, fourth acts, fifth social status and so on and so forth. For women, not an example more than for men, social values are of great importance - personal characteristics of a partner, behavior, character, love and relationships. Female sexuality is extremely dependent on such concepts as love, relationships and emotional attachment. Often, many women are dissatisfied with the indifferent, cold attitude of the lover, than from an unsuccessful sexual act. Thus, the inner world, intellectual development and emotionality of a man are more significant for a woman.
On the contrary, men are more attracted and motivates the external side of the partner, her external attractiveness, compliance with the standards of sexuality, or her own tastes and preferences.
Sexuality of women is a much more complex and delicate phenomenon, and therefore in women, erogenous zones are more extensive and more common than in the male part of the population. For a woman, pleasant sensations are caused by touching many parts of her body, while in men the erogenous zones are expressed mainly in the genital area.
The two main aspects of human sexuality - aggression and passivity over the millennia have become inherent respectively male and female. Aggression in this context is by no means to be perceived as something violent, negative and cruel. Purely from a psychological point of view, "aggression" means moving forward, at a meeting of purpose (in this case, a sexual act). Men in their essence and in their physiological structure are a symbol of the movement forward, at the same time, women in their structure are, as it were, a repository, a target for which male aggression is oriented. It is the ability to penetrate that causes male initiative. In our time, the emphasis has largely changed and the ratio of aggressive men and passive women, too, but this is a completely different story. Because a woman is inherent not only passivity, but also aggressiveness, only much more sophisticated and subtle. The goal of her aggressiveness is to attract male attention to herself, while retaining symbolic passivity and remaining as if pursued. Because if a man encounters excessive female aggressiveness, he subconsciously begins to resist, as a result of his sexual desire for a woman weakens, which can lead to a search for new sexual relations and even impotence. It is these deep and unconscious motives that laid nature at the basis of any sexual relations between a woman and a man. In addition, you should know that a woman wants to be conquered and conquered, which is mistaken. In fact, a woman needs to be necessary and desirable, and only then she will open to her persecutor. The thing is that a woman does not want to be just a sexual object.
There are also noticeable differences in the attitude towards success in sexual intercourse among men and women. The failure of a woman in a sexual act is directly dependent on the failure of a man. In this case, the reverse statement, as a rule, does not work. It is important to remember that the lack of female perception and sensitivity is not particularly hampered during sexual interaction, as it does not sound sad for a woman. At the same time, the absence of excitement in a man will lead to a complete fiasco of the best desires and impulses. That's why a woman is very sensitive even to the slightest weakness on the part of a man. In addition, she consciously and unconsciously experiences aggression against any manifestation of weakness on the part of the man on whom he emotionally depends. At first, she can support, be understanding, and provide moral support so that a man can overcome his difficulties. But if none of the above does help, then a woman can become ruthless and bring down aggressive feelings on him or she will leave for another partner. Men on an unconscious level understand the destructive power of a woman, and their obsessive desire to satisfy their partner can be trapped, reflecting their unconscious fear of the power that his woman possesses. At the same time, it is very difficult for a woman to be deceived by excessive care and affection, as she will understand or suspect about the partner's internal problems.
In men, however, it is very rare that such destructive tendencies occur against a woman who has been found to be insensitive in sexual contact. A man, in extreme cases, can complain that the partner is unfeeling, but with him, everything is in order. The main thing for a man is that she can not complain and question his masculinity. A normal man should feel his role and responsibility for a successful outcome of contact, and at the same time he understands that only his task is to awaken and satisfy a woman. If a woman needs to feel desirable and sensitive, she needs a man free from fear of failure.