Good
- Office parties. In many labor collectives there is a custom to celebrate holidays in the office together. After such parties, anything can happen.
- Constantly does not have time. It happens that the work takes most of the time. Many people already simply do not have the desire to go somewhere after work. Therefore, a service romance is just right.
- When you are driven by a common goal. It often happens that people who are engaged in one business develop similar interests, tastes, principles. In sports and show business, the relations "producer-singer", "photographer-model", director-actress are very widespread. " Such service novels are conditioned by the Electra complex, so in most cases the one who is more experienced and older acts as a leader.
- Family business. It is not easy to be a millionaire's wife, feeling as if in a "golden cage". Psychologists say that some men to take a wife, but also not to let her go far, give them or open some small firm where she could be a mistress, or take her to help in her personal business. There are examples of the real prosperity of such families.
- Personal qualities. Communicating every day with a person at work, you can fully learn his personal qualities. Service novels, when they fall in love with someone for professional qualities, are rare, but they happen.
- Business trip. A trip somewhere in another city with a nice employee is a good opportunity for a service novel. Those who are interested, we recommend to see "The most charming and attractive".
bad
- A good leader in the first place will always take on the position of a professional in his field, rather than a pretty girl-sex machine.
- A woman who decided to start a service romance for the sake of a career place, in the eyes of friends on work and just employees, loses the status of a professional in her business. Since that moment, only her sexual qualities are beginning to be perceived, not professional ones. A service romance can make a certain discomfort in the relationship with them. Men can start to think that you are a woman of easy virtue, women will not miss points to prick you, regardless of possible problems with the boss.
- A service romance is constantly taking place in front of all employees, so you should be prepared that even if they do not feel bad about you, they will still discuss you, or give you some unnecessary advice.
- If you are the boss or boss, then the probability that your subordinate gets a service romance with you just for the sake of a career is very high. What do you want it for?
- Love in the workplace is very distracting from work. Therefore, you can simply be thrown out of work, or even with your partner.
- If you start a service romance just for the sake of a career, you must remember that at any time your place can be taken by someone else, and then you will be left with nothing, and even with a stained reputation.
- Such novels as "investigator - prisoner", "lawyer - client", "teacher - student", are generally prohibited both by unwritten and written laws. They not only can interfere with the work process, but also harm your health, or even life.
- You need to think carefully about whether you are ready to see the same person at home and at work. And even if you are ready, are you ready to see him every day at work if your business romance ends? Can you work effectively when you see your abuser?
Well, after weighing everything "good" and "bad", think carefully before starting a service romance. A successful career!