Get a job through friends - a method in our time is very common and in demand, but still in most cases, carefully hidden. It's unlikely that friends will appreciate this way positively, not to mention colleagues at work. The thought of getting into an enviable position without unnecessary effort warms the hearts of many applicants. After all, you do not need to adjust yourself, worry, and, perhaps, get refusals before you get a job in the desired specialty. And yet getting to work through communication gives not only advantages, but also its disadvantages.
The person through whom, for example, you will get to work from the collective, for certain he has already painted to you the whole atmosphere and the situation in the team, and will also give efficient advice, can help in something, and sometimes even hide from the authorities. And if this person is himself from the bosses, then this is also better for you, because you can count on some indulgence and will be aware of useful information that is not disclosed to everyone, especially if this person is not just your acquaintance, but a friend. If you make an effort, then in this case, rapid advancement on the career ladder is almost guaranteed.So what can there be cons? Your friendship with this person may be tested. So do not try to abuse indulgences. Even the most patient and close friend can lose his temper, so work the way you would work, if you were a boss completely outsiders. And in case of some misunderstanding or a really important matter, the benefits from your close relations with him will manifest themselves, and moreover, given that you have never abused the boss's friendship.
Among colleagues, you can be taken not very sympathetic, because no one will like the fact that he works for the same money as a colleague, but without privileges. Even if this is not the case, your employees will still be convinced of this. This is another minus, to which you need to be ready.
If you have been vouched for, you will have to prove that you can really justify your trust, face constant assessments, which is not entirely pleasant. First time, doing your job, you will feel how it is assessed more closely than the work of other employees, thinking "is it worth it or not?" Perhaps it is not necessary to pay attention to a benevolent attitude that is not benevolent, and just do your job, as if you do not notice anything, but nevertheless keep in mind that you are judged. At first, you can not afford negligent attitude to work in minor aspects that your colleagues will allow themselves. But eventually you will be left behind.
If a girlfriend helped with the work, she can later blab out and everyone will be aware of that information about you that you did not intend to disclose. Therefore, it is better to warn a friend in advance.
Unfortunately, friendship does not always last forever, and if you quarrel, it can seriously affect your work. especially if the friend is the boss. Stress at work, the duty to contact will be very difficult to bear. And if your friend is vindictive, be prepared for the fact that he may try to get your dismissal. Try to behave at work unconstrained, if this happens suddenly, without unnecessary slanting looks and rudeness. Work and personal relationships try not to mix in friendship, but in enmity even more so. And do not rush to leave yourself, maybe you still make up. Even if such a relationship, as before, between you will not be, in the future at work everything can go very smoothly. Most often a small distance in this only helps.
But nevertheless, friendship in a joint venture can produce incredible results, only the correct attitude and foresight are important.