Indeed, men are hunters, but not every representative of the beautiful half of mankind can support the interest of his chosen one in his own person in the process of family life, when the territory is already marked and conquered, and interest in the personality of the spouse begins to slowly but surely fade. Separate several archetypes of women, belonging to which determines the risk of a woman losing her husband, or, conversely, - to cause the disintegration of another's family. Consider them in more detail to determine the female roles and understand what it is necessary to know the woman so as not to take her husband away.
So, "villain", she is a bitch, a predator, a devil. How can you not remember Lady Winter from the famous film "D'Artagnan and the Three Musketeers". Such a woman enjoys the very fact of her involvement in the destruction of someone's happiness. For her, not so important is the man himself, as the process of his seduction. In dealing with the victim, the "villain" makes it clear to his chosen one that with her he recognizes such heights of sensual and emotional pleasure as with no other woman. Overflowing sexuality, a kind of challenge to the man and the ability to charm - the trump cards of this lady. That's why fatal women are so popular with men - with them they can become real hunters. Although, who in this case is a hunter, and who is a game - that's another question.
Women - "simpletons" - perfectly suited for family relationships, they draw their true happiness, but, alas, these ladies get bored very quickly for men precisely because of the lack of unpredictability, mystery and understatement that attracts men so much. Such women are boring and uninteresting, although they can always be supported, they are caring, loyal and economic. But the man does not live by bread alone. Unfortunately, despite all the efforts, from these women most often men go.
In the constant search for another woman, life will turn for a man with a "failure": in any case, the man hopes, the next companion will not blame him for all his sacrifices brought to him in the name of love. A man wants to see a woman near her, who will give him everything without any claims. Undoubtedly, a female "loser" does indeed sacrifice much for her man, but frequent reproaches and reminders of such a victim irritate a man, making him regret that he even contacted the object of the former passion. As a rule, such an archetype includes women with inflated demands, always dissatisfied with the life and behavior of others. Her claims to the world, she begins to show through her man, who as a result loses patience and leaves for a new passion.
A woman - a "reporter" - is called not for a profession, but for aggressiveness and superficiality in her judgments. Such a woman believes that she knows everything about men and sees them through, she is straightforward, self-confident and attractive enough in the male eyes. Some aggressiveness makes it similar to a woman "villain." Particularly attracted to such a lady are men who dream of transferring responsibility for family affairs to women and need women's dominance. "Reporter's" belongs to those women who can easily take her husband out of the family.
But every man's dream is still a "true woman". She will never sink to the level of "simpleton" and neutralize any "villains" who stubbornly revolve around her husband. She will bring to the male life the variegated colors, completeness and meaning. Such a woman is the dream of every man. Having met her, a man can proudly say that life was a success. And indeed it is. From such women, men leave very rarely, and then, mostly because of their own stupidity, or because the woman simply does not want to keep him near him.
Of course, not all women can be "true women". But do not worry about your inconsistency with a high ideal. It is better to concentrate on eliminating negative accentuations of the individual, so you will gradually come closer to the poet's dream.
But all the same, what needs to be learned to a woman so that her husband will not be taken away?
First, male psychology, and secondly - the art of seduction. The main thing that you need to master here first of all is the ability to look always different: not only externally, but also internally. Every man dreams to live, if with one woman, then at least with one that knows how to be different. Such a woman always wants to conquer and hold next to her, she never gets bored, and getting fed up with her is almost impossible. Sometimes she can be a bitch, sometimes a simpleton, sometimes a reporter - always different, and from that so alluring and attractive. Women need to remember that transparency in communicating with a man to the end is not always appropriate. Any man, even the most correct and whole, is torn between the desire to win someone and the need for a permanent partner. It is this contradiction and enjoy razluchnitsy, so why not take this psychological moment into account and learn to use in communicating with a beloved man his lawful wife?
Dear women, try to keep your marriage, bringing to it elements of novelty and pleasant sensations. In this case, your men will not go "left", but will truly appreciate what they own. A gentle attitude, a good joke, an embrace and a change of role can easily pacify the storm in a glass of water-family quarrels that now appear in families, seemingly from scratch.
And if the worst happened - despite all your tricks (changes of images, delicious dishes, intimate conversations and violent sex), decided to leave, do not dramatize the situation. Men, they are like children, play a new toy, compare with the old, and return to the one that turned out better. But are these "searches of true love" worth your tears, nerves and re-making yourself into an ephemeral and abstract image of an impossible dream? Maybe your man is just not yet ripe and did not learn to appreciate your attitude to him and the spent spiritual strength?