Abortion is a kind of surgery, especially if performed after the 6th week of pregnancy. Female genitalia, despite the absence of visible lesions (wounds and stitches) are seriously injured. Violation of the integrity of blood vessels, mucous membranes. In what condition is the uterus, one can only imagine - an open wound that is invisible to the eyes. In this connection, the probability of subsequent inflammation and infection is large enough, therefore, all measures should be taken to avoid deplorable consequences.
After the abortion, the woman must follow the rules of personal hygiene, in addition, the sex life after the abortion should be renewed at least three weeks later, but it is better to wait after the abortion of the first menstruation and only then to resume sexual relations. Temporary sex restrictions will prevent not only the development of gynecological diseases, but also the opportunity to re-become pregnant. Especially dangerous in this respect are sexual relations after medical abortion, after only two weeks, the ability to conceive is restored. Partners after abortion it is better to refrain from unprotected sex for at least six months, even if there are plans to become pregnant. This is due primarily to the fact that the female body has not yet recovered, which means that the risk of developing pregnancy pathologies is too great. After all, it is no accident that sexual relations after abortion are an indication for the use of contraceptives, the use of which is categorical.
The most common contraceptive is the use of condoms. Condoms, although they protect against sexually transmitted infections, do not by themselves protect against pregnancy by 100%, only along with other contraceptives.
The use of the diaphragm is another method of contraception, which can not be used after an abortion (12 weeks and more pregnancy) for two months. After abortion, the sex life, as gynecologists assure, should continue with the use of hormonal contraception. In this case, oral contraceptives are best used in those in which the level of hormones is low. After an abortion, regular intake of contraceptives is necessary to not only prevent conception, but also to regulate menstrual function, to reduce the likelihood of developing inflammatory diseases.
After abortion, intrauterine devices should not be installed, since they can aggravate the situation (the incidence of complications increases).
Sterilization of a woman is perhaps the most radical method of contraception, after which a woman can never have children, since this process is irreversible.
After a mini-abortion, the sex life should also be protected, as after abortion by medication. Although mini-abortions are less traumatic, the risk of infection remains high. In addition, the likelihood of a second pregnancy is also very high.
After abortion interest in sex disappeared
If some women after abortion can hardly wait for the resumption of sexual relations, then others on the contrary lose all interest in sex. Lack of interest in sexual relations is a predictable consequence of abortion. Since first of all abortion in a woman's life for the rest of her life leaves a mark. Over time, of course, the condition improves, but nobody forgets about this event.
Most couples after encountering problems caused by abortion and can not cope with them, because of this part. And if a woman has a miscarriage at the end of pregnancy, this only aggravates the situation between partners.
How the abortion will be affected is affected by several factors: the age at which the abortion was made, the duration of the relationship with the partner, whether the decision was reciprocal. After the procedure, problems caused by hormones develop, because of what a woman may lose interest in sex. Often the partners take offense at one another, and sometimes they hate.
Solve the problem of unwillingness to make love, you can solve in an honest frank conversation, while you should avoid criticism, and focus on encouragement.