A man by nature polygamy and monogamy - it's rather an exception corrected, and not the rule itself. Many women, reading these words, will sigh, that's the only one for me and for life. The man is created to conquer, protect and continue his family, and a woman to raise children and protect the home. And in fact it is very difficult to argue with nature, it is wiser for us.
The feeling of love is subject to absolutely all normal people. Loving someone the same as breathing. If a person has never experienced a feeling of love in life - that's already a pathology. As well as an exception to the rules - to love one person all his life, especially if this feeling is undivided. And in this, rather, more negative points than positive.
And usually, unfortunately, the ending is always very true in life. The one-man always thinks and remembers the adored object and struggles to win it all his life, but ninety-nine percent is unsuccessful. Of course, watching a film about eternal love is touching and romantic, but life makes its own adjustments, and living with one-man creates a lot of problems.
All his life, every normal man can love a woman, but with some reservations. This is a completely different topic - can you forgive treason and deceit. A monogamous man will suffer for dozens of years, if his feeling has been undivided. Therefore, if you meet a homosexual on your life path and it does not suit you, then it's better to immediately break all the relations, then his psychihika will be able to dislodge another item of adoration, if the relationship is delayed, then you will be very troublesome to part with such a person.
Many women for years live with unloved men odnolyubami only out of feelings of guilt or gratitude, or even fear for his life Ipsihiku, but not because of a mutual light feeling.
Of course an ideal if there are two people in a pair of monogamous people. But we will repeat, this is extremely rare and, probably, only in fairy tales or in feature films and serials. In fact, he loves only one, and the other loves himself. Sostoron seems that the couple is perfect - the house is a "full cup", the husband does not look to the left - everything is in the house, everything for the wife. But as they say, "nobody sees skeletons in someone else's closet." And behind a calm, measured and comfortable life are hidden the sufferings of a man who allows himself to love.
Since the monogamous simply does not notice the feelings of his second half. The main thing is that I love her very much, and everything else is not important, he thinks. And he already thinks for two, depriving the woman of the initiative to manifest emotions, depriving them of the opportunity to love and not be loved. Such emotional selfishness does not lead to anything good in the relationship of the couple.
How do you determine whether you got one of those five percent of male odnolyubov, or does not.
You've been meeting for a long time, and he has not yet told you anything about his feelings, you understand that he is in love, but he has not dared to admit it for a very long time. Understand, he makes only one choice in his life once and for all, so he can go this years.
In the company or in the circle of friends to all the signs of attention from the opposite sex it is absolutely indifferent, and sincerely. Yes, most likely this is a monogamous person.
If it is against any particular pastime - be it a vacation or a trip out of town for a weekend, or simply you want to go to the cinema in the homeland. Yes, most likely he is a monogamous person. Such people simply do not physically tolerate the absence of the object of adoration.
In conversation, "my" is used constantly for you. Yes, odnolyuby horrible members of society and constantly stress this.
But keep in mind that loyalty and full devotion and selfless love, he will demand and otvas, too, constantly, every day.
Prepare to be a model of chastity and keeper of the home, no frivolity and flirting your companion does not accept and will not allow.
And also be ready, that he will be always near you, and always and everywhere, even in the sauna with his girlfriends, because you must dedicate yourself to him.
But it may be that you will meet a new love or you will be burdened by the old, then beware. Simply and peacefully disperse with the odnolyubom will not be easy. He will not allow you to forget about yourself for a minute - constant calls, arrivals on occasion and without reason, gifts and invitations will accompany you all the time. And you will always hear the same meeting every time - to come together and live together, forgetting all the troubles.
And then the woman is waiting for the most serious test - to accept his conditions or to insist on the nasvoem. Prepare that he will press on the feeling of pity and compassion, and your sense of guilt is also charged, that it is you who caused him to suffer and suffer so much. Many women after such a long psychological siege simply surrender and continue to live with a fellow-son without mutual feeling, and eventually continue to make themselves to suffer. Or there is a choice - still do not give up and insist with the nasvoem. Yes, you will make him suffer, but otherwise it's simply unrealistic to disperse peacefully and peacefully.
So, when converging with a monogamous man, think a hundred times - are you ready for such a lifelong test.
Or do you still belong to the ninety-five percent of people who are emotionally free and are not afraid to show their feelings and desires, and are waiting for the same from their chosen one.